do you get the urge to just bang a girl? HARD?

  • kaccioto

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    Apr 14, 2008 3:13 AM GMT
    i'm asking as a gay guy. i'm not bi, though i do believe one can be bisexual.

    before the joe kort internal homophobia crowd jumps on me i'm not trying to be cocky or anything. my bf is a beast in bed and i love nothing more than wrestling with him and slowly watch the foreplay turn into borderline assault and battery.

    but there is this one hot bitch in backoffice who comes to me for monthly price reports. usually with someone as hot as her, the shitty persona accompanies it. except she's the total opposite, almost shy, and every time we talk i get an urge to paper shred her on top of my desk, then invite her over to watch some real housewives of nyc..

    i've had small flashes before, but nothing to this extent. i think it's like how some guys go through a "sex with guys phase" during college but that doesn't necessarily mean they're gay, except with me it's backwards, and i know i'm gay and will always be. i wonder if she would be down to tag my bf sometime.
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    Apr 14, 2008 3:38 AM GMT
    I've always considered myself gay but I can see where you're coming with.

    I feel like this should be opposite though, like I should be straight and curious about guys. I'm gay and curious about girls. I guess we're the other bicurious.
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    Apr 14, 2008 3:42 AM GMT
    I love making out w/ girls, and usually it doesn't really turn me on. But this one chick I used to work w/ kinda got a little rough, and not gonna lie, I definitely considered going home w/ her.
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    Apr 14, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    I've coached a few of my fruit fly friends on how to find the prostate and massage it and give an awesome blowjob at the same time so they can please their husbands or boyfriends. That's pretty much the extent of heterosexuality I get into.
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    Apr 14, 2008 7:57 AM GMT
    Um.. Ew! icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 14, 2008 2:24 PM GMT
    YES!!!!!! There is this one girl i know..her name is Maria....she is sooo fucking hot..and there is alot of sexual tension between us..and i get soo hard everytime she touches me...and i just want to hold her in my arms and do her...hard and long and all night...and she always grabbing my ass and kissing me on the neck, but i cant get myself to tell her i want to fuck her, im scared she might reject me..although every time she grabs my ass and kisses me she says "Moudi baby, im so horny"
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    Apr 14, 2008 3:00 PM GMT
    Yeah, I totally do. Now, I don't know that I've ever come across a woman that I've wanted to do or who's hit on me (I tend to be oblivious to that), but I'm totally fascinated with the female anatomy (down below mainly, breasts don't really do it for me) and LOVE to watch straight porn. Especially when the guy goes down on her, something so erotic about that, much like rimming a guy.

    Would I ever try it? Hell yeah! I'm trying to not limit myself in my life, and that means sexually too. But alas, it has yet to happen.
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    Apr 14, 2008 3:01 PM GMT
    Yeah... a few months ago I imagined I was having sex with the girl next to me on the subway. It felt weird icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 14, 2008 3:47 PM GMT
    MuscleBudSea said I'm trying to not limit myself in my life, and that means sexually too.


    I agree... Sex with a girl/woman can be equally as good as with another guy...
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    Apr 14, 2008 4:47 PM GMT
    JUST WASH WELL AFTERWARDS
    ....and dont tell me about it. .... icon_eek.gif
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 14, 2008 6:43 PM GMT
    Don't be hard on yourself, it's only natural that you're curious about the opposite sex. It's normal for young people to think about the anatomy of the opposite sex, wondering what it looks like and how it feels. This is a nautral part of human development. It's just a phase, mainly due to the peer pressure of your straight friends.

    You shouldn't feel the need to talk about these feelings with your parents, unless you can be 100% sure they will be understanding and won't judge you. However, if these feelings you're experiencing are upsetting to you, I would just a good psychiatrist that speacializes in sexual disfunction, and if that fails, there are many groups across the country that can cure you of these abnormal feelings.

    But just remember, you're a normal, healthy young man. Don't let anyone treat you differently, and don't let these feelings lower your self-esteem and self-worth!
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    Apr 14, 2008 6:58 PM GMT
    NO
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:07 AM GMT
    I explored that side of the fence for a good part of my adult life...got married, had two kids, and I don't regret it for a minute...but I seldom get that urge any more. With women. at least. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:59 AM GMT
    Holy #@%&! dude, come explore with me!!
  • geebus

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    Apr 15, 2008 6:40 AM GMT
    Wysiwyg60 saidNO

    I agree icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 16, 2008 12:37 AM GMT
    Caslon saidJUST WASH WELL AFTERWARDS
    ....and dont tell me about it. .... icon_eek.gif



    I have never had sex with a female and my fragile little mind was just warped by this thread topic. icon_razz.gificon_confused.gificon_eek.gif
  • Sirkit

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    Apr 16, 2008 1:17 AM GMT
    I can honestly say I've never felt that way. However I do wish I was Bi sometimes. There are so many fantastic women out there that it would be a blast to play with but men are so much... prettier icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 16, 2008 11:17 AM GMT
    Two words people... angelina jolie...

    If anyone can make me straight, she can...
  • geebus

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    Apr 16, 2008 11:57 AM GMT
    Alec_Brandon saidTwo words people... angelina jolie...

    If anyone can make me straight, she can...

    how about Eva Longoria? Admittedly she's HOT.
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    Apr 17, 2008 12:40 PM GMT
    Yes Eva Longoria, and actualy most of the star roles in Desperate housewives are so fine. I've had many girls before washed myself afterwards and still suggest that every gay guy has to try it at least once. Otherwise you don't even know what you gave up in the first place...
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    Apr 17, 2008 4:56 PM GMT
    DEFINITELY--AND I DO ON OCCASION
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    Apr 17, 2008 6:15 PM GMT
    There certainly are women that I'm physically attracted to - just not as many as men.
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    Apr 18, 2008 1:04 PM GMT
    Kinsey says we all lie alone a continuum which ranges from totally homosexual to totally heterosexual with true bisexuals smack in the middle. Everyone is a little different, and likes both sexes in varying ratios. It's just part of real life - part of being who you are, and there's nothing wrong or wierd about it. It's normal. Just be yourself and enjoy it.
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    Apr 18, 2008 5:43 PM GMT
    All the time...
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    Apr 30, 2008 7:18 PM GMT
    sundown55 saidKinsey says we all lie alone a continuum which ranges from totally homosexual to totally heterosexual with true bisexuals smack in the middle. Everyone is a little different, and likes both sexes in varying ratios. It's just part of real life - part of being who you are, and there's nothing wrong or wierd about it. It's normal. Just be yourself and enjoy it.