Having trouble dating

  • kevin_xo_

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    Apr 14, 2008 5:11 AM GMT
    So heres my problem, I have never really gone out on a date with a guy and I dont know where to start. What I guess Im saying is that Im looking to date. Is it just me or do guys just dont find me attractive. I went to pride with some friends but didnt notice any stares.
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    Apr 14, 2008 5:42 AM GMT
    How often do you smile? icon_smile.gif Passing on some good advice I heard from a lot of the wiser guys here: (1) build up your own confidence since that tends to be a good quality that attracts others, (2) go out more in the right places, maybe not at bars but perhaps other local/college organizations and clubs where you can connect with other friends (depending on how comfortable you are with being out, they might help you find someone), and also (3) just be yourself and keep working to improve your body.
  • kevin_xo_

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    Apr 14, 2008 5:43 AM GMT
    I actually smile quite a bit. Just not very much in pictures. Hmm thx for the advice. I think theirs a club on campus.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 18, 2008 10:06 AM GMT
    Absolutely...if you smile at a guy
    you'll see a big difference

    I've been trained ... coming from NY to give off the "don't come near me" vibe
    but the minute you smile that all changesicon_wink.gif
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    Apr 21, 2008 1:48 AM GMT
    thats funny...i cant seem to come across a guy to date either...and i believe im a friendly guy, i mean i think im your average guy not to much but just enuff ...you know...and im still chill by myself..lol..i guess its a situation i kind of have to deal with.icon_rolleyes.gif