Is sex supposed to be like this?

  • Jericophantom...

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    Jun 09, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    I'm a nice guy good well mannered I try not to let things really get to me and I allow things to just roll off I tend to over think situations but when I'm having sex my brain shuts off and I feel nothing but sheer emotion and instinct my Ex's state in common that I bare my teeth I'm very dominate and abusive they claim it was one of my secret perks but when I turn over afterward and see him sleeping with bite/scratch marks and when I looked a couple times they had bruises on their necks deep down I feel a little guilty and I don't know why I'm such an aggressive lover
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    Jun 09, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    I mean how do they feel about it?

    I don't think there is some invisible force or magical thing about sex that removes reason and emotion. You chose for the most part to be like this and enjoy it, so don't be ashamed of that. As long as you have a partner who is okay with it (and probably likes it) I don't think its a problem.
  • Jericophantom...

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    Jun 09, 2011 6:33 PM GMT
    They love they say its the most passionate experience they've ever had....when they tell me I'm like icon_eek.gif serious all this started after my first I've only ever been with four other no Idea where it came from
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    Jun 10, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    Are you a Republican?
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    Jun 10, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    pent up anger? i tend to let things roll off too, what you're really doing is bottling up anger and letting it out during sex. i've been hitting the punching bag on occasion to help stop myself from flipping out on people. i've never gotten even close to violent during sex but i have a lot of self control.