Well I guess what goes around comes around. LOL

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    Jun 09, 2011 11:50 PM GMT
    Well I don't know how many of you have read my previous posts, but I had a post listed about dating someone I wasn't attracted too. WELL I just got dumped because the guy who I was dating said he wasn't ever attracted to me physically, that I looked good on paper for him. LOL!!! I laughed because I JUST did that to the other guy and tried to force a relationship with him because of the very same thing. I thought well I guess I gotta let the real jockers know what happen to me today. icon_razz.gif Oh well no sweat of my back, I guess when I reach my goals and get happy with myself physically, I'll be able to be with someone who I am attracted to. icon_smile.gif On a 2nd note I kinda did wonder why he never would touch me when we had sex. LOL it was cuz he wasn't attracted to me. DUH lol hahaha. Alright guys well just thought I'd update you on a funny thing. I guess put out there what you want because sometimes your bound to get alot of what you dont want. Later
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    Jun 10, 2011 12:00 AM GMT
    jcaliguy said

    "guess when I reach my goals and get happy with myself physically"

    Hi, and I remember the post. I think you could add, "get happy with my beautiful inside spirit"

    Boy was this latest guy stupid. I think the problem was more the other guy's problem, not yours.

    Good luck and keep trying.
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    Jun 10, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    Wow! You're an attractive young man.......was this last guy headless??? icon_biggrin.gif luckily you are young......and look like the kind who will get better as he ages too.

    To each their own I guess.......but my question to all those guys out there that want their BF's to be ripped or "perfect" is.....if that person is ever (God forbid) in a bad accident and no longer capable of maintaining that perfect body.......would you leave them?

    We do put too much emphasis into looks and sex and rarely enough into personality in my opinion.
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    Jun 10, 2011 12:15 AM GMT

    How did this guy manage to have sex with you without touching you? icon_smile.gif

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    And, he's gonna have to teach me how to actually say to a guy that you've never been physically attracted since day 1, just keeping them around for some sort of social experiment. That's sub - zero cold. If you did it, don't apologize or feel punished. I think you'd be surprised that a great many guys could actually empathize with how you could: a great guy comes along and everything works except he doesn't melt you, well, you think you can do without it or it'll change. I think it's just "something" not really based on someone's looks completely. But, what you did wasn't totally unnatural, good luck.

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    Jun 10, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    Karma's a badass bitch!
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    Jun 10, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    Jcaliguy saidWELL I just got dumped because the guy who I was dating said he wasn't ever attracted to me physically, that I looked good on paper for him.


    That's why I spare any kind of vindictive behavior on people. I just say, their loss...next, and let them have a taste of their own medicine.

    You don't tell someone, "I'm not attracted to you". You say this is not going to work out because I don't feel a 'spark'. To spare their feelings. You know they can't change how they look so why even say something so mean?

    So now you know, don't lead people on.


    JockChefJim said
    To each their own I guess.......but my question to all those guys out there that want their BF's to be ripped or "perfect" is.....if that person is ever (God forbid) in a bad accident and no longer capable of maintaining that perfect body.......would you leave them?


    Shit, why put all the burden on us? I'd be asking them the same thing!

    People don't need to be in bad accidents to stop being out of shape. And I doubt that even a wheelchair would stop a dedicated person for too long. Most cases are people who get complacent after they have a boyfriend and then get fat.

    That's the real question. Are you going to get fat on me after we get together?
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    Jun 10, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    running11 saidKarma's a badass bitch!



    +1.5
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    Jun 10, 2011 12:24 AM GMT
    running11 saidKarma's a badass bitch!


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    Jun 10, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    Fit4FitnDenver said
    running11 saidKarma's a badass bitch!


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    I lol-ed real hard at that icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 10, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
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    If I ever adopt a girl maybe I should name her Carma
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    Jun 10, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    hhahaha I am kinda laughing about it right now, but ehh shit happens right?
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    Jun 10, 2011 6:19 AM GMT
    Funny story. What goes around and all that. I wonder how many other gay men do this?
  • swedeinusa

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    Jun 10, 2011 6:26 AM GMT
    Eh...he was kind of an idiot. You have a wide smile, you sound pretty solid, and your body looks good.
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    Jun 10, 2011 6:53 AM GMT
    Sounds pretty much like how it usually seems to happen, eh?
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    Jun 10, 2011 7:23 AM GMT
    WOW, lol, the guy who sent you home because he thought you weren't attractive enough, must have been on drugs icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 10, 2011 7:58 AM GMT
    LOL karma strikes again.
    Nevermind keep on trying. Eventually you'll find someone.
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    Jun 10, 2011 8:01 AM GMT
    or just enjoy being single ;) f*ck relationships i say.
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    Jun 10, 2011 8:25 AM GMT
    You'll find someone else just lay low for a bit