The Ex' who won't let go!

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    Apr 14, 2008 5:09 PM GMT
    Have you ever had an ex' b/f who just will not let go and still call's or tell's you he loves you still after Years of separation? Does it bother you and can you deal with it and how?
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    Apr 14, 2008 6:06 PM GMT
    No, I've murdered all my ex's.
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 14, 2008 6:11 PM GMT
    Awww, no fun...redheadguy beat me to it.
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    Apr 14, 2008 6:24 PM GMT
    Well, it hasn't been years since we split up. We dated until last summer and he was my first bf ever. He played a very big role in my life, but I guess I played even a bigger one in his. I broke it off and kept on calling me, coming over, asking me about the guys I date. And now we're supposed to be friends, but I am 100% sure he still hopes we'll get together...
    It really is kinda annoying, especially when he starts to bitch about my boyfriends.
  • mcwclewis

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    Apr 14, 2008 6:29 PM GMT
    Yes...


    Redheadguy.... Ill pay you to take care of my ex.


    Hes a dirtbag.... which sucks because he really didnt seem like one... oh well.
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    Apr 14, 2008 7:12 PM GMT
    No thank heavens. One guy fell in love with me after we broke up. He did the smart thing and stopped interacting with me to cure the budding obsession. I was hurt at the time (he was my best friend) but looking back on it he did the smart thing. I used to say things in his presence that would hurt his feelings not realizing his true emotions.

    My current closest gay friend, still gets calls from his ex. Unfortunately this guy is a lying sociopath (the kind that used to be very anti-drugs but is now a druggy), so hearing from him is not a good thing. It usually means he wants something.
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    Apr 14, 2008 7:18 PM GMT
    Why, what is wrong with that? There is just so much love to share...
  • GQjock

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    Apr 14, 2008 9:55 PM GMT
    That's what Orders of protection are for

    no...really sit Said Ex BF down and say that
    you care about him but this calling has to stop
    ...tell him that you want 2 months where you two have no contact

    no calls no meetings
    and in two months you'll re-evaluate and see if you can be friends
  • zakariahzol

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    Apr 14, 2008 11:04 PM GMT
    No...but I myself use to be this nutso. I use to hang around his place, call him, hopping to get him back. But I am older now and more mature.
  • dfrourke

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    Apr 14, 2008 11:05 PM GMT

    I'm friends with all of my ex's [except for the latest] so when we call each other it's usually to catch up...I've only had one ex try to "get it on" after we broke up...and that was stopped immediately...

    ...I try to "move onward" and not look back...and with the guy who tried to "get it on"...we still snowboard together...but I try to do things with "lots of clothes on" with him...so I have fair warning...icon_smile.gif

    - David
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 15, 2008 3:07 AM GMT
    All of my ex's live in Texas.......

    LOL.. actually there aren't any male ex's, they are females.

    I find it a little odd and kind of disturbing. I would wonder about their stability.icon_mad.gif
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    Apr 15, 2008 4:42 AM GMT
    Ok redhead i will hire you as a Hit Man!
    This one is doing my head in and will not leave me be?

    Five years ago we met and never lived together for a long stretch as he was a real problem!

    Two years ago i told him not to bother me and he still will not let go?

    Yes he has problems and i am no Mother Theresa!