Saunas and bathhouses

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    Jun 10, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    Who has been to a gay sauna? I'm interested to know peoples thoughts.
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    Jun 10, 2011 6:39 PM GMT
    blactor saidWho has been to a gay sauna? I'm interested to know peoples thoughts.

    I liked gay bathhouses when I was single. My partner wont't go to them, so now I can't, either. Perhaps an acquired taste, I think they can be fun if you know how to play safe, and be a bit discerning & selective. Not every dick deserves a suck or a poke.
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    Jun 10, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    Don't do it! It's a cesspool in there!

    Sorry art deco nothing against u
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    Jun 10, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    Just wear sandals or youll get foot syphilis.
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    Jun 10, 2011 8:00 PM GMT
    JP85257 saidJust wear sandals or youll get foot syphilis.


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    Jun 10, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    JP85257 saidJust wear sandals or youll get foot syphilis.


    They don't hand out PCN shots at the door?
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    Jun 10, 2011 10:34 PM GMT
    Bathhouses are for whores.
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    Jun 10, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Chattman91 saidBathhouses are for whores sluts.


    Corrected. Your welcome.
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    Jun 10, 2011 10:55 PM GMT
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    Chattman91 saidBathhouses are for whores sluts.


    Corrected. Your welcome.


    No, I meant whores.
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    Jun 12, 2011 8:49 AM GMT
    Chattman91 said
    _SAGE_ said
    Chattman91 saidBathhouses are for whores sluts.


    Corrected. Your welcome.


    No, I meant whores.

    What's the difference?icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 12, 2011 8:52 AM GMT
    One is a calculated premeditated pro, the other is simply a slave to relatively extreme sexual compulsions.

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    Jun 12, 2011 12:23 PM GMT
    Whore: A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

    Can you say: politicians?
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    Jun 12, 2011 12:41 PM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite saidWhore: A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

    Can you say: politicians?



    That irrationally presupposes that a 'whore's' principles were in fact those that corresponded with the 'norm' to begin with... icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 12, 2011 12:42 PM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite saidWhore: A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

    Can you say: politicians?
    ...and everyone else who has a job they hate. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 12, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    blactor saidWho has been to a gay sauna? I'm interested to know peoples thoughts.


    I think the idea of it is far more enticing than the reality... Just as the fantasy of a gym locker room full of hot naked guys -- sounds good on paper; however, in person the guys might be naked, but they ain't so hot.
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    Jun 12, 2011 9:01 PM GMT
    In my early twenties when I'd still be mistaken for a minor I went to legitimate, ancient Turkish baths in Budapest and Istanbul. I assumed they were culturally hetero institutions but the experience to even my untrained eyes reeked of gay subtext. In Budapest, in lieu of a towel the cover-up I was given for modesty's sake amounted to a tiny apron with just a flimsy napkin-sized piece of cloth in the front designed to screen one's junk - I felt more self conscious and exposed with it on than if I were fully nude, particularly as it clung to me as I waded out of an indoor springfed pool feeling the eyes of a posse of mustacioed men upon me. The next time I tried a Turkish bath, in Istanbul, I went with several friends to feel safer, unwittingly assembling for myself an even bigger audience. In a big domed room we'd each be laid out near naked atop a huge hexagonal slab of heated carerra marble as the others, encircling the slab, awaited their turn. When mine came the muscular and frighteningly strong masseur, a hulk with sandy brown hair, hamhock hands and a deep booming voice, groped me with such force I thought my bones would break and then while clenching my pecs so hard that I practically whimpered in submission he leant closely into my ear and seductively murmered "hashish...hashish..." in hot, breathy waves. Now I know this all sounds like the prelude to bad porn but it really happened and I still have no idea whether my experiences were atypical or whether those Old World baths were designed to provide a culturally acceptable outlet for gay activity. Here's a rare visual of me from that period, gone native with a dark tan and mustache:

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    Jun 13, 2011 1:30 AM GMT
    Zabotugi said
    Chattman91 said
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    Chattman91 saidBathhouses are for whores sluts.


    Corrected. Your welcome.


    No, I meant whores.

    What's the difference?icon_neutral.gif


    The difference is that a whore will fuck everybody. A slut will fuck everybody but you.
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    Jun 13, 2011 2:02 AM GMT
    waimea saidDon't do it! It's a cesspool in there!

    Sorry art deco nothing against u

    No offense. Your are correct: some bathhouses are indeed cesspools, as you say.You get what you pay for. I've only gone to those of a higher caliber, since one does have choices.

    Here's an example of one of my favorites, that I've linked here before. I offer the disclaimer that I have no financial interest in this place, don't know the owners, and no longer attend myself, since my current partner forbids my going to any bathhouse. Judge for yourself:

    http://www.the-clubs.com/page.cfm?location=ftlauderdale

    I beliueve you may have to create an account to see the entire site, though I think Photos from the top menu bar might work.
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    Jun 13, 2011 2:21 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    waimea saidDon't do it! It's a cesspool in there!

    Sorry art deco nothing against u

    No offense. Your are correct: some bathhouses are indeed cesspools, as you say.You get what you pay for. I've only gone to those of a higher caliber, since one does have choices.

    Here's an example of one of my favorites, that I've linked here before. I offer the disclaimer that I have no financial interest in this place, don't know the owners, and no longer attend myself, since my current partner forbids my going to any bathhouse. Judge for yourself:

    http://www.the-clubs.com/page.cfm?location=ftlauderdale

    I beliueve you may have to create an account to see the entire site, though I think Photos from the top menu bar might work.


    I think its less the cleanliness of the facilities and more the fact that people there are (for the most part) trolling for public anonymous sex and that some of these guys have had multiple sexual partners within the past few hours that grosses people out.
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    Jun 13, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    _SAGE_ saidOne is a calculated premeditated pro, the other is simply a slave to relatively extreme sexual compulsions.

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    wait, is that amy winehouse?
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    Jun 13, 2011 8:37 AM GMT
    I used to go from time to time when I was single. I think as long as you go to a decent place, you play safe and you're reasonably discerning then it's just a bit of fun. The majority of times I went I just enjoyed the facilities and didn't hook up at all.
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    Jun 13, 2011 8:39 AM GMT
    Pure saidI used to go from time to time when I was single. I think as long as you go to a decent place, you play safe and you're reasonably discerning then it's just a bit of fun. The majority of times I went I just enjoyed the facilities and didn't hook up at all.


    I wasn't there obviously icon_redface.gif
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    Jun 13, 2011 8:48 AM GMT
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    _SAGE_ saidOne is a calculated premeditated pro, the other is simply a slave to relatively extreme sexual compulsions.

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    wait, is that amy winehouse?


    Belle De Jour/ Hanna (Billie Piper), darling... From the truly great Secret Diary of a Call Girl:

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    Jun 13, 2011 9:59 PM GMT
    I go to them occasionally. Expecially in winter to break the routine of cold weather so i can enjoy a warm place with a pool. Yes Im a bit of a exhibitionsit, I usually wear a speedo or some type of briefs. Most of time I dont mess around with anybody If I do, Its a casual J/O. Since Im extremply picky with looks. Hookups in places like that dont happen often since most of the clientle that goes there are the type that should NOT be taking there clothes off in public in the first place. I would like to try the "CLUBS" in Orlando at least once. It looks nice and seems to have a decent sized pool. Trying to justify the long drive to get there.
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    Jun 13, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidTo paint an even clearer picture, here's a rare visual of me at that age, going native with a dark tan and mustache:

    [sexiii]

    you used to be so attractive
    what happened?