What turns you off???

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    Apr 15, 2008 4:56 AM GMT
    No offense to any guys that may be offended or might see themselves likes this but.

    The other day I saw a hot looking guy, beefy/muscular...In my eyes this guy was perfect, my dream boyfriend but then hey started talking!!!

    Sounded so feminin, the voice did not match his body what so ever. I thought...So much for the perfect guy...big turn off right there.

    Although i know no one is perfect and to me it's someone that's imperfect that makes it perfect!!!

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  • GQjock

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    Apr 15, 2008 10:48 AM GMT
    lol...a reality moment

    for me if I smell smoke or any kind of bad breath

    there'll be flames on the carpet from me running away fast enough
  • geebus

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    Apr 15, 2008 11:00 AM GMT
    oh these change for me like the weather...currently it's the "I haven't discovered deodorant nor will I speak with correct gramma"...oh and people that don't bother to even try to pronunciate what they're saying (eg, using "hab" to replace "have" or "mah" for "my" or "ish" for "is"...the list goes on...)
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    Apr 15, 2008 11:40 AM GMT
    Bad teeth. No doubt one of the worst offenses to me.
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    Apr 15, 2008 12:41 PM GMT
    Poor hygiene and a bad attitude usually do it for me.
    I don't date stinky grumpy bitches.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 15, 2008 12:48 PM GMT
    John43620 saidPoor hygiene and a bad attitude usually do it for me.
    I don't date stinky grumpy bitches.



    Well I kind of agree with John..... but for me its a combination of

    1)Poor Hygiene: What does that say about how they live their life, and others?

    2) Whiny attitude: This really does it for me. Almost the most important thing (beyond being a criminal). I love guys with positive attitudes. For those who whine about their circumstances and try to find an easy way out is a total turn off.
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    Apr 15, 2008 1:08 PM GMT
    All of the above....

    Plus ignorance of ignorance.... a dude that will opine when he clearly isnt informed.
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    Apr 15, 2008 1:12 PM GMT
    Guys with lists of turnoffs.
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:06 PM GMT
    guys with no goals or aspirations for life. Such a turnoff. I am sick of those guys are content looking cute and being seen. I want someone who wants to make something of themselves.
  • dhinkansas

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    Apr 15, 2008 2:30 PM GMT
    Guys who screen my calls to them and don't pick up.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Apr 15, 2008 2:32 PM GMT
    Someone who is messy. If I walk in to a guy's place and it's a pig-stye, I think it is very telling that his life is probably a mess too.
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:45 PM GMT
    sexydude26 saidNo offense to any guys that may be offended or might see themselves likes this but.

    The other day I saw a hot looking guy, beefy/muscular...In my eyes this guy was perfect, my dream boyfriend but then hey started talking!!!

    Sounded so feminin, the voice did not match his body what so ever. I thought...So much for the perfect guy...big turn off right there.

    Although i know no one is perfect and to me it's someone that's imperfect that makes it perfect!!!

    Thanks for reading icon_smile.gificon_lol.gif





    "see tarzan, hear jane"
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:49 PM GMT
    Without a doubt BAD BREATH, BODY ODOR, or ridiculously unkept, cracked, dry or smelly feet send me heading for the hills in a New York minute....and if you pick your nose in public, the date is over. LOL
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:50 PM GMT
    That's because people think muscles are what make you a man and its not.

    There just the work of repetatively lifting weight to sculp your body... that dosn't change everything about who you are on the inside.

    I think its something like her opened his mouth and a purse fell out LOL..
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:51 PM GMT
    Hot guys who know it and dwell on it. These days, hot guys are a dime a dozen. What else do you have to offer? Same with the intellectual types. It's like okay you're handsome or you're smart (or both)...is that it?

    What's sexy are hot/smart/insightful guys who are not quite aware of it.
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:54 PM GMT
    Any lack of hygene.
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:01 PM GMT
    Caslon saidAll of the above....

    Plus ignorance of ignorance.... a dude that will opine when he clearly isnt informed.


    Oh man, I thought you liked all those things in me Caslon...
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said[quote][cite]John43620 said[/cite]Poor hygiene and a bad attitude usually do it for me.
    I don't date stinky grumpy bitches.



    Well I kind of agree with John..... but for me its a combination of

    1)Poor Hygiene: What does that say about how they live their life, and others?

    2) Whiny attitude: This really does it for me. Almost the most important thing (beyond being a criminal). I love guys with positive attitudes. For those who whine about their circumstances and try to find an easy way out is a total turn off.[/quote]

    I'm with you on this one.... and add to it those who just think they know it all!
  • kinetic

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    Apr 15, 2008 3:03 PM GMT
    BAD ATTITUDES!!!
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:15 PM GMT
    Besides the above well stated points, I'd say
    guys who say they want open and honest communication until you actually engage in open and honest communication.
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:38 PM GMT
    Pushy/needy guys - Stop text messaging me

    Sexually agressive - sometimes this is good. But don't assume.

    Agenda pushers - especially younger guys, who feel they have to explain in detail how great they are and all the promise they bring to the table.

    Serious/lack of sense of humor - Lighten up

    Preachers - at this point of the game, I am pretty much gonna do what I want. Don't lecture me on the harms of drinking diet coke or how uch damage my jeep does to the ozone.

    Bitches - I don't mind a sassy attitude, but if all you can do is complain and talk smack about people. Well, then I am bored and turned off.

    Bad manners, Puritanical outlook, slobby dresser, bad teeth
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:40 PM GMT
    Those who say "Illinois" with an "s".

    - LOL
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    Apr 15, 2008 5:23 PM GMT
    Feminine manners is the greatest turn off for me... and then bad hygiene. I mean, come on - it's the 21st century. It's soooooooooooo not okay for a person not to wash his teeth, take showers, take care of himself...
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    Apr 15, 2008 5:32 PM GMT
    Lists.
  • docbailey2005

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    Apr 15, 2008 5:33 PM GMT
    Liars
    Bad breath
    fecal! if you're a total bottom then you should know better.
    fake people
    just to name a few.
    confused people, feminine one moment and butch the next. is u is or is you aint!!!