New here...curious...but in the closet =X

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    Jun 13, 2011 5:49 PM GMT
    heyy everybody! so I'm new here and I really want to meet a guy (from staten island or at least ny if anyone reads this lol) but I'm in the closet still so I don't wanna put up a pic. Are people going to message me without one because then I feel like this thing is a waste.

    It's not like I'm ugly, I consider myself goodlooking (ithink lol) but I'm still coming to terms with my sexuality but this isn't facebook so I'm not down to just throw up a pic.

    Also I've never been with a guy and really want to experiment and I was wondering if this was a good place to meet people to meet off the site.

    Anywayyy hope to make new friends on here!
  • ohioguy12

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    Jun 13, 2011 5:55 PM GMT
    Might as well post a picture, you will get more messages. I don't understand why closeted guys don't post a pic. Nobody is going to see you on this site unless they are gay themself.
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    Jun 13, 2011 7:46 PM GMT
    or just post a body pic or just a face pic...
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    Jun 13, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    its hard to talk to someone when they dont show what they look like. But that might just be me.
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    Jun 13, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    I'm in the closet too (at least in real life) and I feel safe putting pictures up. Then again I have it set so that only people who are members here can see my profile, so. Try doing that, it's under 'preferences'. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 13, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    Do guys really think they have to sexually experiment in order to determine if they are into other guys?

    I mean...I knew I was gay when I hit puberty and still waited until I was in my early 20s to give up the goods.