first time i had anal = fissure

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    Jun 13, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    Hey i know it's my first post please don't be judgemental on the subject of my first post being something so blatant, thanks.

    This was my third attempt at anal intercourse and has been the first successful one where my partner was able to penetrate. It was the only time i was able to relax enough to let it in. It went on for about 5 minutes but i couldn't take the feeling of it being in me as i'm pretty much a virgin to it,

    For about 5 days after that night, everything was fine and normal. But the Tuesday after work's bowel movement was so painful, and i had pain at every bowel movement everyday since. It was only since last Tuesday though.

    I'm trying to let it cure the natural way, but i work construction everyday, i work out everyday and play hockey 3 times a week.

    Has anyone been in the same situation as me ? icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 14, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    hockeyfanatic said Has anyone been in the same situation as me ? icon_cool.gif
    Similar but not same...never got penetrated even after ~10 attempts. That's when I finally realized that it's never going to happen. I never was turned on by anal sex anyway, and only tried it because I thought that's what I had to do to be a gay man (peer pressure)...not because I wanted it.

    Now I don't even try anymore. It's not something I'm interested in. Sure it's cost me plenty of potential dates, but I'm not about to do something I don't like - especially something as painful and dangerous as that - just to be accepted.
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    Jun 14, 2011 11:33 PM GMT
    yea i never thought i'd do it either, it just seems so hot and looks so hot, so i had to try it once. don't think i'd ever do it again though after this experience. it was even given to me gently for 5 minutes. felt o.k. for the first 2 minutes, but having the feeling of something up my anus was just too much