guys with one testicle

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    Apr 15, 2008 10:48 AM GMT
    does having one testicle make you any different from any other gay guys? I lost my left one due to cancer and have since then become the butt of many a cruel joke. it has become so bad that i now refuse to have any contact with anyone for fear of rejection or being unwanted. does anyone have any advice for me?
  • Timbales

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    Apr 15, 2008 11:46 AM GMT
    My brother went through the same thing, he has a false one. Have you looked into that?
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    Apr 15, 2008 12:19 PM GMT
    My Dad has one testicle and he managed to jizz up three kids.

    I'd suggest counselling or speaking with a psychologist. You need some tools to clear up that fear of rejection.
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    Apr 15, 2008 12:46 PM GMT
    I've had a one night stand with a guy who had 1 testicle, made absolutely no difference to me what so ever! he still managed to perform, and i had one hell of a night!!! lol

    there's been a lot of cancer in my family and it's a real concern for me, so if people are willing to reject and make fun of you for something that you had no control over, and something that could have claimed your life, then they're the scum of the earth!!!!!!!!!

    hope your ok and it's all been clear for you!
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    Apr 15, 2008 12:54 PM GMT
    onenut1000 saiddoes having one testicle make you any different from any other gay guys? I lost my left one due to cancer and have since then become the butt of many a cruel joke. it has become so bad that i now refuse to have any contact with anyone for fear of rejection or being unwanted. does anyone have any advice for me?


    It's all in your perspective.

    Dont look at the comments as cruel jokes, but as self-enunciated mate eliminators. If the person doesnt have any more sense than to carry on like that, you dont want to be around him anyway.

    And you also need to develop an arsenal of rejoinders...like, "well, my one nut seems to be doing the job that requires 2 of yours"
  • dfrourke

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    Apr 15, 2008 1:57 PM GMT
    well, it can't be too bad if your profile name is "one nut"...I can't imagine this would make any difference to me if I found out the guy I was dating had one testicle...it's not like I need to get pregnant...

    - David
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    Apr 15, 2008 1:58 PM GMT
    Funny I just posted my experience with that on the testosterone thread.
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    Apr 15, 2008 2:00 PM GMT
    It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. And if you felt like having a fake one installed - fine - as long as it makes you feel more confident. If I met a guy who had just one ball due to cancer or something - I'd let him know I thought it was great he tackled the cancer and is still around.......something to celebrate every day!
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:06 PM GMT
    Oh i had a short lived romance with a guy with Three testicles 4 Years ago? He was so sensitive in that area and the rest well Wow!


    No he was not a Pawnbroker?
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:38 PM GMT
    A friend of mine had one nut and he just totally owned it. he kind of nicknamed him self or let others nickname him willy one nut, and he got a kick out of it. it really is not big deal. I felt special because I was the only one allowed to call him by his real first name followed by one nut. One nut, three nuts, as long as the good work it doesnt matter much, though it does make for some pretty funny times.
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    Apr 15, 2008 3:56 PM GMT
    chungo44 said One nut, three nuts, as long as the good work it doesnt matter much, though it does make for some pretty funny times.

    Three nuts? One nut too far!
  • auryn

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    Apr 15, 2008 3:57 PM GMT
    The US version of Queer As Folk has one of it's main characters deal with this. I've never known anyone that this has happened too, but I'm sure I'd tell the antagonists that it would double their pain if I kicked them in their crotch.

    I think it's good that you distanced yourself from those that are so insensitive and your friends should be told how much it bothers you when they make jokes. Even if you laugh nervously, they should be told and should respect you.
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    Apr 15, 2008 4:03 PM GMT
    Cancer - what a lousy excuse. Congrats on beating it!!! I would rock that one nut with pride.

    I have a friend who went through the same thing and got a fake one. To me there are far worse deformities you could have. Three nipples always weirded me out.
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    Apr 15, 2008 4:23 PM GMT
    How's this?

    "If the doctors didn't take that one out, I'd be dead."
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    Apr 15, 2008 5:26 PM GMT
    It would make no difference to me.
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    Apr 15, 2008 5:40 PM GMT
    I "dated" a guy with one nut.

    When we were in bed, of course, my hand found its way down there. ...down there ...around there ...I'm feeling around for the second nut ....he laughed and told me there is only one nut...the other one failed to grow ....I guess I chuckled ...and the rest of the night was spent in a flurry of sexual activity. ... icon_biggrin.gif


    hmmmm....does sexual acitivity come in "flurries"? ... icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Squarejaw

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    Apr 15, 2008 5:43 PM GMT
    I can't imagine that it would make much of a difference to me. I'm not much of a ball man, so I probably wouldn't even notice.
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    Apr 15, 2008 5:59 PM GMT
    I once fooled around with a guy that had no nuts. He had complications from undescended testicles as kid and lost them both. He was on HRT and had prosthetic nads and I would never have suspected if he hadn't told me about it. It made no difference, he was still cute and a great lay. One nut, two nuts, three nuts, no nuts, as long as everything else is in working order that's fine with me.

    I almost lost one of mine about 8 years back from a severe case of epididymitis. Spooging blood all sorts of fun stuff. Since then it has atrophied to about 1/4 of it's original size. It would have sucked if I would have lost it completely, but I think i would have gotten over it. I think what is left of it doesn't work anyway.icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 15, 2008 6:10 PM GMT
    You should be happy yo be alive....My boyfriend went through the cancer and has only one. and now He is hornier than ever. sometimes I can't cope ...
    So does not bother me at all.icon_biggrin.gif
  • healthseeker

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    Apr 15, 2008 8:51 PM GMT
    I went through something similar. It is always a much bigger deal for me than it ever has been for anyone I've been with. I'm still a little self-concious but I haven't run into anyone else that cares.
    ...and I'd like to add my one works like a champ! =)
  • joeindallas

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    Apr 15, 2008 8:51 PM GMT
    First Bud hope you are OK Testesicular Cancer can be tough.
    I agree with the room go for an implant. Your medical will cover it for it is not cosmetic.
  • MuscleUp

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    Apr 15, 2008 9:44 PM GMT
    One ball, two balls, red balls, blue balls.
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    Apr 15, 2008 10:01 PM GMT
    "balls" said the queen, "if i had two, i'd be king"

    Congatulations on beating cancer. You can always wear a demi-tasse instead of a protective cup.
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    Apr 15, 2008 10:03 PM GMT
    The Scotts invented golf, in the winter in the snow they play golf with red balls. They just can't get away from those kilts.
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    Apr 15, 2008 10:25 PM GMT
    *rimshot