what should i do ??

  • kemoze

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    Jun 14, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    well, i guess most of guys here know about me , so , they would unerstand my feeling pretty much.

    i am trying to travel to an open country thats why i am saving money to save my life, but all of a sudden, he appears in my life,
    he is 29 old, was living in UK and then moved here for work, as i did too..
    he has a son of 9 motns,,,
    first time i talked to him, he asked me how i can keep my body pretty fit,
    and showed me a photo of him , while he was half naked and was amazing and his body was damn perfect, ( i dont care about the look that much )
    anyway, i dont know whats happing to me these days ..seems like every where i go i see him.. i dont know how i loved him ? i cant control my heart, it beats too fast while he is close to me ,, all i have now is LOVE PAIN
    yeah it hurts me too much coz i love him and he doesnt know this..
    i cant tell him or show anything coz this might destroy my career
    but i am so frustrated and disappointed coz i cant control my heart.
    i am in love now and i dont know how this happened to me ...
    i am tired coz its love from one side only

    so , guys any ideas .. how can i get over this..
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    Jun 14, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    He's got a son?? Is he married and so?? If he is and he is Egyptian, then i say u forget the whole thing and move forward... Its not worth it yabni.
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    Jun 14, 2011 6:56 PM GMT
    kemoze saidwell, i guess most of guys here know about me , so , they would unerstand my feeling pretty much.

    i am trying to travel to an open country thats why i am saving money to save my life,
    Stop.Right.There.
    Ask yourself which is more important...a life filled with sorrow and regret and possibly/probably a failed attempt at closeted romance, or a life where you can be yourself?
  • kemoze

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    Jun 14, 2011 7:19 PM GMT
    Amgad saidHe's got a son?? Is he married and so?? If he is and he is Egyptian, then i say u forget the whole thing and move forward... Its not worth it yabni.


    he is not egyptian .. he is indian.., he is boyond hot ...
    he has a son means he is married but why every time i look at him i see that look on his face, checking me i dont know ,, i might be wrong
    but the way he looks and talks make me fall in love
    damn,

    love
    love
    love

    i get only hurt and pain from love but i still like being in love
    i would tell him stop trying steal my heart away
  • kemoze

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    Jun 14, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    kemoze saidwell, i guess most of guys here know about me , so , they would unerstand my feeling pretty much.

    i am trying to travel to an open country thats why i am saving money to save my life,
    Stop.Right.There.
    Ask yourself which is more important...a life filled with sorrow and regret and possibly/probably a failed attempt at closeted romance, or a life where you can be yourself?


    i do know what i want,, yeah its a life where i can be me ....
    but the love i feel now is just pain which keeps me a wake most of night and watch romantic movies washing i could be free to love someone and hold them at night, looking at the stars...
    i am confused and i feel like we guys suffer a lot in this world ,,

    i wont stop trying to travel, i am tired of closeted romance here
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    Jun 14, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
    You say you LOVE him... (I'm not being bitchy)
    but do you really love him, are you sure you're not just lusting for him? Because love and lust are 2 different things; or maybe you love your idea of who he's is instead of who he actually is.

    The reason I'm asking is because, while I do believe in TRUE LOVE, I also believe you can't be in love with someone you don't know on a very real and intimate way.

    Now if you have gone on dates, you know he's gay and out, single, and he's interested or feels the same more power to you bud.

    If you only know enough about him that you can't discribe him/your relationship in more than a small paragraph, my guess is you're letting you emotions get carried away and should stop and take a breath.

    You never know, you could get to know him and discover, you have nothing in common, you really don't get along, or you just plain don't want to be with him. You may not even be sexually compatible which would doom your relationship from the start.

    No matter what, don't make your life choices based on someone else, you will be the only on who ends up regreting it. Be smart and evaluate the situation with a rational thought process. Then make your move no matter what it may be.

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    Jun 14, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    ^^^^

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    Jun 14, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    It sounds like you really want to move to a more open society, and if that's true, that should be your priority. Without even knowing if this man is gay it doesn't seem worthwhile to ditch your plans. As you see more of him in the gym or wherever, his behavior or speech may give you some clues. If it turns out he is gay and interested in you, you could both move elsewhere. Best of luck, and remember love will find you.
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    Jun 14, 2011 9:39 PM GMT
    Kemoze, your post definitely indicates love, even if it is the young love that happens to teenagers. In the US we call it a crush. I think the man is definitely interested in you, but not for monogamy, which I suspect you are seeking. I think this man is probably bi-sexual and would like some experience with an exotic looking Egyptian man. Should you go through with it? I don't think so unless this man and you become staunch friends and he is, in fact, gay. AND he is looking for monogamy. Knowing a little about Indian culture, his first allegiance will be to his family.

    Of course, it could mean nothing at all and he was just being friendly. Good luck and proceed with caution.