why is it so hard...

  • SuperPump

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    Jun 14, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    for me to find a decent guy that I really like? I just dont understand.....
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    Jun 14, 2011 11:15 PM GMT
    Dude it happens chillax man.

    I mean take it from my point of view, I just meet people. I dont meet to date, or fuck, or for a friend, I just meet people and taking the pressure off of things helps you get to know the person.

    Relax, your pretty sexy.

    If that doesnt work, put on a were wolf costume, it might help. :-).

    Also, your only 23 years old. I know it doesnt seem like it, but your really really young. You have plenty of time ahead of you. Dont worry about settling down, it will happen eventually.

    Think of it this way, people hitting 65 this year will most likely die in their 90s, so there is a good chance we can live to our 100s, which means your barely 25% done with life, and most of that is being a kid so you werent looking for anyone anyways.
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    Jun 15, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    Probably cuz gay guys are too picky icon_biggrin.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jun 15, 2011 1:02 AM GMT
    dude, you are young. please learn to enjoy your youth while you can. worry about graduating, partying (no drugs), finding a job, enjoying your friends and family.
    when you are truly ready life will give you a bf
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    Jun 15, 2011 1:16 AM GMT
    it just is.. lol. sorry. there's literally thousands of guys out there man, don't give up so soon.
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    Jun 15, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    There seems to be a lot of guys on here who have hard time finding someone to date.
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    Jun 15, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    Gaydar saidProbably cuz gay guys are too picky icon_biggrin.gif

    QFT
  • Thirdbeach

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    Jun 15, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    If finding some one was easy, you wouldn't appreciate the person you found..
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    Jun 15, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    From your bio:

    I would say that im one of those guys who would try just about anything once and it usually gets me in trouble but that is just the kind of person I am. Im a complete mess most of the time and I freak out over everything. Im very OCD about certain things.

    On another note...alot of people dont like me and talk alot of smack. I could care less. I have enough friends but I try to be nice to everyone. I come off as cocky to alot of people at first but I think Im a nice guy...most of the time.

    Perhaps these are things that turn off guys. Just a thought.
  • jrs1

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    Jun 15, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc said... you are young. please learn to enjoy your youth while you can. worry about graduating...finding a job, enjoying your friends and family. when you are truly ready life will give you a bf

    I'm trying to embody these very words every day. it's really difficult when I let myself get distracted by wants rather than needs. good advice, sir.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Jun 15, 2011 1:32 AM GMT
    You're probably trapped in the dilemma of looking for a gay partner, but being more attracted to str8 guys. I'ts why I"M still single.
  • DCEric

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    Jun 15, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    ....because if it was easy, everyone would be doing it.
  • SuperPump

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    Jun 15, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidFrom your bio:

    I would say that im one of those guys who would try just about anything once and it usually gets me in trouble but that is just the kind of person I am. Im a complete mess most of the time and I freak out over everything. Im very OCD about certain things.

    On another note...alot of people dont like me and talk alot of smack. I could care less. I have enough friends but I try to be nice to everyone. I come off as cocky to alot of people at first but I think Im a nice guy...most of the time.

    Perhaps these are things that turn off guys. Just a thought.


    well its true lol
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    Jun 15, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    badboy69 said
    Dallasfan824 saidFrom your bio:

    I would say that im one of those guys who would try just about anything once and it usually gets me in trouble but that is just the kind of person I am. Im a complete mess most of the time and I freak out over everything. Im very OCD about certain things.

    On another note...alot of people dont like me and talk alot of smack. I could care less. I have enough friends but I try to be nice to everyone. I come off as cocky to alot of people at first but I think Im a nice guy...most of the time.

    Perhaps these are things that turn off guys. Just a thought.


    well its true lol


    Well you are hot as hell. from a physical perspective I could never understand why you wouldnt have your pick of guys. So maybe some of it might lie in another area icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 15, 2011 2:46 AM GMT
    Quality is key, anyone can have quantity.
  • SuperPump

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    Jun 15, 2011 2:47 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said
    badboy69 said
    Dallasfan824 saidFrom your bio:

    I would say that im one of those guys who would try just about anything once and it usually gets me in trouble but that is just the kind of person I am. Im a complete mess most of the time and I freak out over everything. Im very OCD about certain things.

    On another note...alot of people dont like me and talk alot of smack. I could care less. I have enough friends but I try to be nice to everyone. I come off as cocky to alot of people at first but I think Im a nice guy...most of the time.

    Perhaps these are things that turn off guys. Just a thought.


    well its true lol


    Well you are hot as hell. from a physical perspective I could never understand why you wouldnt have your pick of guys. So maybe some of it might lie in another area icon_smile.gif



    Well I have never had a boyfriend before. I do know plenty of guys that would love to date me. Im just too picky I guess..
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    Jun 15, 2011 2:48 AM GMT
    Welcome to the lives of single people worldwide!
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    Jun 15, 2011 2:49 AM GMT
    Because you have ~3% of the choices all the straight people do?
  • SuperPump

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    Jun 15, 2011 2:49 AM GMT
    Chainers saidDude it happens chillax man.

    I mean take it from my point of view, I just meet people. I dont meet to date, or fuck, or for a friend, I just meet people and taking the pressure off of things helps you get to know the person.

    Relax, your pretty sexy.

    If that doesnt work, put on a were wolf costume, it might help. :-).

    Also, your only 23 years old. I know it doesnt seem like it, but your really really young. You have plenty of time ahead of you. Dont worry about settling down, it will happen eventually.

    Think of it this way, people hitting 65 this year will most likely die in their 90s, so there is a good chance we can live to our 100s, which means your barely 25% done with life, and most of that is being a kid so you werent looking for anyone anyways.


    lol thanks but I feel like time is flying by fast. Im not out looking for a guy but it just doesnt seem like the right one is gonna come by anytime soon....or if at all
  • SuperPump

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    Jun 15, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    jprichva saidMaybe because you're in fucking Alabama??


    yeah the guys here in are terrible. Im ashamed to be from here.
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    Jun 15, 2011 2:51 AM GMT
    badboy69 said
    Chainers saidDude it happens chillax man.

    I mean take it from my point of view, I just meet people. I dont meet to date, or fuck, or for a friend, I just meet people and taking the pressure off of things helps you get to know the person.

    Relax, your pretty sexy.

    If that doesnt work, put on a were wolf costume, it might help. :-).

    Also, your only 23 years old. I know it doesnt seem like it, but your really really young. You have plenty of time ahead of you. Dont worry about settling down, it will happen eventually.

    Think of it this way, people hitting 65 this year will most likely die in their 90s, so there is a good chance we can live to our 100s, which means your barely 25% done with life, and most of that is being a kid so you werent looking for anyone anyways.


    lol thanks but I feel like time is flying by fast. Im not out looking for a guy but it just doesnt seem like the right one is gonna come by anytime soon....or if at all


    I wasnt even out at your age. And not nearly as good looking. You have plenty of time to meet Mr. Right.
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    Jun 15, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    badboy69 said
    jprichva saidMaybe because you're in fucking Alabama??


    yeah the guys here in are terrible. Im ashamed to be from here.


    bah. your accent would melt me.
  • calibro

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    Jun 15, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    you have the number 69 in your member name
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    Jun 15, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    welcome to the club!
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    Jun 15, 2011 6:03 AM GMT


    24 and still single here. and this is the the best advice I've read today..

    tuffguyndc said
    when you are truly ready life will give you a bf