let him go...plzz help

  • loneboy

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    Jun 15, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
    hello guys..i m very grateful to you for helping me me once wen i was in a difficult situation.i m in need of help again.after breaking away from previous boyfriend.one boy approached me in my hostel for friendship.i somehow felt he is interested in me and he was.he used to touch me nd used to flirt.i eventually started to fall in love with him.In the meantime he also chatted with a gal.i used to feel jealous but never told him bcoz i wasnt sure if he was straight or gay or bi.now he is ignoring me bcoz of that gal or watever reason may be.i have had many memorable moments that i cant forget.wat should i do??let him go ..just help me..
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    Jun 15, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    You said it best, "let him go" I don't think a guy that will run off with a girl is the kind of guy for you, do you? icon_wink.gif
  • loneboy

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    Jun 15, 2011 9:51 AM GMT
    yes,but how cud i leave him without asking the reasons for all that happened between us..shud i tell him i love him??
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    Jun 15, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    No. It will fall on empty ears. He found you interesting enough for a brief tussle, but he has moved on.

    Load up on chocolate and booze, and watch porn at home. Do that until you become a fat alcoholic or until you forget about him, whichever comes first.
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    Jun 15, 2011 12:09 PM GMT
    Forget it, the guy is probably bi-sexual. I have quite a bit of experience with bi's in the past, and it's really hard to trust them.
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    Jun 15, 2011 1:29 PM GMT

    Let go.

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    Sep 13, 2013 10:10 AM GMT
    it would depend upon what your relationship with him was... if you are not sure that he was straight or not then telling him you love him might freak him out... but you want to confront him then just ask him why is he ignoring you, just don't imply any kind of feelings or relationship... just as you would ask any other person the same question.

    But don't go back to him... he is not worth it.
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    Sep 13, 2013 3:20 PM GMT
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    Dec 23, 2013 6:55 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    ankurvaidya saidit would depend upon what your relationship with him was... if you are not sure that he was straight or not then telling him you love him might freak him out... but you want to confront him then just ask him why is he ignoring you, just don't imply any kind of feelings or relationship... just as you would ask any other person the same question.

    But don't go back to him... he is not worth it.

    You do know this was TWO YEARS AGO, right? He probably doesn't even remember posting this.


    aww...sorry then... i just saw the post and forgot to see the date... it happens
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    Dec 23, 2013 7:03 PM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidNo. It will fall on empty ears. He found you interesting enough for a brief tussle, but he has moved on.

    Load up on chocolate and booze, and watch porn at home. Do that until you become a fat alcoholic or until you forget about him, whichever comes first.


    That's what I did. I'm glad I didnt get fat, lol!

    Work out a lot, keep busy, throw yourself at work and try to save money until you get rich and Hot. Your time will come.

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  • FRE0

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    Dec 23, 2013 7:12 PM GMT
    You will notice that he is in India. He mentioned living in a hostel, so probably he was a student. Considering attitudes toward gays in India and his living arrangements, he would have had little choice but to remain closeted, at least for the time being. Since that was two years ago, probably his living arrangements have changed.
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    Dec 23, 2013 7:16 PM GMT
    ankurvaidya said
    Aristoshark said
    ankurvaidya saidit would depend upon what your relationship with him was... if you are not sure that he was straight or not then telling him you love him might freak him out... but you want to confront him then just ask him why is he ignoring you, just don't imply any kind of feelings or relationship... just as you would ask any other person the same question.

    But don't go back to him... he is not worth it.

    You do know this was TWO YEARS AGO, right? He probably doesn't even remember posting this.


    aww...sorry then... i just saw the post and forgot to see the date... it happens

    I'm always amazed when guys answer posts that are years old -. How did you find it in the first place? You would have had to search for it. This guy hasn't even posted anything at all since 2011.