Kaicoyote said Like someone else said, Two total tops or two total bottoms don't work out so to avoid those kinds of situations, it seems a bit appropriate to ask.
See, I don't believe stuff like this. And this I believe why it can be so hard to find compatible people. I mean to dismiss someone soley because they are top or bottom is silly.
That's why I like versatile men. Usually they end up wanting more than the other but I've met some guys who are truly versatile. I remember swapping fucks with one guy like 2 or 3 times.
I find bottoms can be even more picky. I've had guys tell me, "I don't get fucked by bottoms" and I only said I was versatile! On the other hand, tops are more than willing and ready to fuck another top!
I do wish more guys were like me though. I can literally be 100% top OR 100% bottom in a relationship...I like both just as much as the other. as long as he's sucking my dick. If he's not sucking my dick then he might be bi and THAT is an issue. You're not going to be pussy swapping on me....
She calls me one day a bit upset. I asked what was wrong and she said she broke up with her boyfriend. I asked her why. She said they finally decided to have sex. They were having a lot of fun when he asked her to role around onto her stomach. She said ok and then he tried to stick her in the butt.
Long story short, a conversation that should have come up a long time, but it happens to WOMEN so often because they are taught by society to be "SOPHISTICATED" and to not bring stuff like that up.
We are MEN. know what you're getting yourself into before you fall for it.
And I'm done.
That guy is a perv...that's kind of isolated incident. For him to leave when he has a vagina right in front of him is just gay.
I never understood the concept. I mean it sucks that us gay guys have to deal with shitty bums from guys who don't clean theirs well enough, for a straight guy to actually WANT to fuck an ass is just beyond my comprehension.