I want love...

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    Jun 16, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    Recently, I met a guy online and we met up to have some coffee. Had a great time talking to him and I'm really excited how things are going. It was officially my first real date EVER and I'm still a virgin as well (loooong story).

    Anyway, the guy I'm dating knows all this but the idea of sex scares the hell outta me. He knows this too and has been very accommodating to my needs. My worry stems from the fact that I really don't feel worthy of such attention and it scares me really. I want this to work out and I want to be comfortable. I want to be loved but in the past it's always been such a disappointment when that love isn't returned. I have no clue as to what to do. Any advice would be great. Thank you.
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    Jun 16, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    Remy, I wouldn't try to intellectualize on what to do too much -- the passion will take over and you will be fine. I'm thinking about my first few times and I was literally on fire. Do you like to make people happy? Do what you think makes the partner "come alive" based on his input. You'll know pretty much what turns him on. Don't be afraid to tell the partner what you turns you on. By all means "be safe." Use a condom.