Question and opinion: I have No/ to very little labedo..or sex drive...You veiw?

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    Apr 16, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    To me its like...
    A girl with No breasts...Yuu can run with out the pain of flopping bags of skin But you lose a certain attration people look for...I have no labedo...I dont worrie about unwanted arousuals or Fealing strange infront of other men...I mean everytthing is Working.
    But I dont Have the will to do it...Like it does not intrest me.
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    Apr 16, 2008 6:06 AM GMT
    No...no comments
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    Apr 16, 2008 8:27 AM GMT
    Is that a problem for you ?
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    Apr 16, 2008 8:41 AM GMT
    I want to know if its a bad, thing ...Im guessing Im Lucky cus I can focous more on other things but..SOme times..I think..Should I be more worried about this stuff...and have more of an intrest?
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    Apr 16, 2008 11:57 AM GMT
    I strongly recommend you check out

    http://www.asexuality.org

    you may or may not be asexual but it is a great community for those questioning. i also posted about asexuality on my blog just do a search under that.

    http://www.queersunited.blogspot.com
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    Apr 18, 2008 6:49 PM GMT
    Have you ever had a labido before? If so, what stimulated you so? Maybe recreating that would get you going, as long as it's legal of course. If not, hippieforlife's website may be just the thing.
    Good luck with that.
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    Apr 18, 2008 9:18 PM GMT
    Hey, if you have no libido why are you on a gay website with lots of pictures of hot sexy men. Perhaps the nature of your desire is the problem.

    If everything is working and your are having unwanted feelings about men then actually your libido is working. Perhaps it's your attitude to being gay that is the problem.
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    Apr 19, 2008 1:02 AM GMT
    redhead i dont think its fair to say anyone should or should not be on this website which is oriented to gay men. this is not a forum just about sex, but about gay culture, fitness, etc. gay men come in many different shapes, sizes, color, and varying levels of sexual preferences. some men are very sexual others are not so sexual and some are asexual. and yes you can be gay and asexual, they call themselves homo-romantic asexuals and i know some.

    http://www.queersunited.blogspot.com
  • GQjock

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    Apr 19, 2008 11:51 AM GMT
    Everybody is different
    don't look at other people and say why am I not like them

    If you have ABSOLUTELY no interest in sex whatsoever
    that is a different problem

    If that's the case I would have a check in with a Doctor
    there maybe a hormonal problem going on that you are unaware of
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    Apr 19, 2008 2:39 PM GMT
    Yeah, I agree with GQJock. Make an appointment with an Urologist. There are many physical things that can affect your libido from your testis to your hypothalamus and other things like stress. It is OK if you are satisfied not having a sex drive but find out the reason why you do not.
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    Apr 19, 2008 3:36 PM GMT
    I agree with the above posters, if this is something that concerns you go check it out. If it isn't a concern you may just be asexual which is natural and healthy and you got nothing to worry about. It is only a problem if it is something that bothers you.

    http://queersunited.blogspot.com/