Dealing with Height Differences

  • biontop

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    Jun 18, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    I posted this in another category so I brought over here to get some more answers.

    So here's the story, I'm 5'6" and my boyfriend is 6'1-2". Obviously thats created a inconvenient disconnect in altitude. icon_sad.gif I've never been in a relationship like this and I'm thinking this one will be going for awhile. icon_biggrin.gif

    So what I'm wondering is if anyone has any tip on how to dealing with this? When we kiss he has to sort of lift me up in a hug (I kinda love that because its cute icon_razz.gif ). But even then it really hurts my ankles and neck. Then of course when we do it, we're limited to what we can do, especially because I'm usually the top. We can do missionary, but its not very intimate. We mostly do the cowboy position, but that's getting old. Almost all other positions are awkward and that can be kind of embarrasing icon_redface.gif . I was hoping I could get some tips for foreplay and sex that would make it easier for us.

    Thanks!
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    Jun 18, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    Learn to love being the bottom... You'll be able to do every position and if you ain't tall enough he can pick you up ;)
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    Jun 18, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    LOL, I'm somewhat in the same dilemma dude. I'm 6'3 (when I'm not slouching) and my BF is 6' even and he's the top. At first it was weird for him when we'd make out and I'd kinda spread my legs to lower myself but eventually we got over it.

    Before we became serious, he'd tell me he's not used to hooking up with guys taller than him but he couldn't resist the smooth, hard stomach (his weakness), lol!

    I recommend sideways penetration. Like both of you lay on your side and you can hit it that way. Height difference doesn't really effect this position. Also your BF can lay sideways with his upper torso facing up while you hit it as if it were missionary. That one make sense?

    Anyways, don't sweat it man. If you guys love or really like each other then you should be able to overcome the height issue.
  • biontop

    Posts: 17

    Jun 18, 2011 2:57 PM GMT
    Thanks Soldier_Guy. I'm not worried about the relationship being strained (we've been together for awhile and we've been through alot together, I'm pretty sure we're well matched), it just isn't easy to do things when you're nearly 8" apart.