Rugger, what is it around you at the gay club happening that crushes you? Is it the fabulousness, oh I know...it's the large variety of fruity coktails made to perfection for your pleasure. It couldn't be all the wall to wall male eye candy (I know all of it ain't...but some of it is). Let's not forget the music! I get it
, how many TIMES can you remix Madonna's songs, but is this really enough to crush you? Can't you see the big picture?
These are OUR clubs and they are teeming with our sisters. I know, some of them are self absorbed, shallow, oppurtunistic, whores, but it's not like you don't get your choice of undesirables at any other venue in society: the park, the grocery store, a straight club (god forbid).
So when you go to a gay club, why focus on the negative things that might
be happening or the undesirables that might
be there? You're there and are a stand up guy, right? Could you really be the only guy there wanting to have a good time or the only guy who is going home later to sleep...alone?
I go for the music and to support gay business and to be near my sisters. What they are there for, well, that's not really my problem.