Good or Bad Move?

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    Jun 18, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    Since I am moving on with my life, stress free, happy, carefree, and independent I came up with the idea that if someone who finds you attractive be the one that purses you instead of you being the one who consistently makes ends meet to be with someone who may or may not have no liking for you. I think it is safe to say that if someone wants to be with you let them be the chaser while you sit back and watch it happen. Is this a good thing or not?
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    Jun 18, 2011 11:51 PM GMT
    What if everyone did this?
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    Jun 18, 2011 11:53 PM GMT

    Honey...honey...honey...if you start wishing for a glass of refreshing water to come to your mouth and don't go fix one, we'd find ourselves, regretfully, attending your funeral.

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    Jun 19, 2011 12:05 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    Good grief, chowl.
    Apparently someone still acts like a child smh
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    Jun 19, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    That technique works well with closeted guys on the DL, but not with open gays.
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    Jun 19, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    I'll help you.*raises sleeves*

    What I meant to transmit to you before is that you can't sit around and wait for something you want to come to you. At worst, you'll be reposting and complaining that no none YOU LIKE approaches you or worse, men will over look you. Hey, you gotta talk and be charming; being gay doesn't relinquish you from average social behavior. However, if you wanted to "attract" men you want, you better be a damn good magnet, which is doable. You'd have to transmit what you want in a man outward from yourself and thus, attract the kind of man you want to you. The funny part is, if you really are/became this kind of man, you'd just go up to them. So, what are you looking to attract? Did you understand this?

  • creature

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    Jun 19, 2011 12:44 AM GMT
    Bad move.

    If you want someone, go after him. Just make sure the feeling is mutual. Use your smarts to know if he's interested in you. I certainly would not go out of my way to make ends meet if I had the slightest inclination he did not like me. You could be using that time and energy to find someone else.

    I've seen chasers in chasees' clothing in the online hook-up scene. Guys who initiate the "conversation," but like in a game of chess, they want you to make the moves and to be the one to ask for sex, even though they desperately want it. They will drag out an inane discussion to avoid bringing up sex.

    I wouldn't tolerate that in the dating scene. If the guy wants to be chased, that might shed a light on his overall behavior. I have no interest in any who wants to sit back and await for affection.
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    Jun 19, 2011 12:50 AM GMT
    creature saidBad move.

    If you want someone, go after him. Just make sure the feeling is mutual. Use your smarts to know if he's interested in you. I certainly would not go out of my way to make ends meet if I had the slightest inclination he did not like me. You could be using that time and energy to find someone else.

    I've seen chasers in chasees' clothing in the online hook-up scene. Guys who initiate the "conversation," but like in a game of chess, they want you to make the moves and to be the one to ask for sex, even though they desperately want it. They will drag out an inane discussion to avoid bringing up sex.

    I wouldn't tolerate that in the dating scene. If the guy wants to be chased, that might shed a light on his overall behavior. I have no interest in any who wants to sit back and await for affection.
    Thanks for the advice man icon_smile.gif
  • mybud

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    Jun 19, 2011 2:30 AM GMT
    Dude...sometimes you got to make things happen...You might sit back and BAM....another guy comes along and takes what you want....Don't lose sight of the prize....claim it as yours and fuckin go for it.....BUD