I need a friend...

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    Jun 20, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    Guys, I need to have someone in my life who can take me somewhere new, someone who knows me, who i can rely on, who is funny and someone I can come out to...

    All my other friends are boring, they are all busy with their lives, and they don't care anymore. I need a change...

    I tried having pets but still, didn't work with all the unconditional love they give u, but i needed more than that! Is it depression that I'm going through? Or what is it...

    I feel like am carrying a burden on my shoulders and even if I came out to the world it won't change anything when I'm alone, it will be just another man who said he is gay! :S

    I'm so tired and I dunno what to do!!


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    Jun 20, 2011 4:07 PM GMT
    Amgad saidIs it depression that I'm going through?
    Yes.
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    Jun 20, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    This is a nice song.

    I was listening today to ABBA - The Winner Takes it All, man this song is gorgeous and so meaningful, and it made me realize that I've always been the loser standing small...


    http://youtu.be/92cwKCU8Z5c


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    Jun 20, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    theantijock said
    Amgad saidThis is a nice song.

    I was listening today to ABBA - The Winner Takes it All, man this song is gorgeous and so meaningful, and it made me realize that I've always been the loser standing small...


    Here ya go



    Life isn't about winning & losing. Most of that is just luck. Find meaning elsewhere.

    Donna, listen to me, this is about us.



    I dun have any elsewhere, everyone i meet is either a jerk, looking for sex or a sick minded person!

    Seriously, i cudn't find anybody and those who might seem nice, are afraid of accepting the fact that we both are gay (if we went out)
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    Jun 20, 2011 9:27 PM GMT
    The problem is that you are looking to others to make you happy, when you can only make yourself happy. As some have already said, you may be suffering from depression. Get to a doctor and see if that's what's dragging you down.

    Having pets is a great thing to do for yourself.

    Go on amazon.com and get a cheap paperback copy of Louise Hay's book, "You Can Heal Your Life." That little book, and practicing it's lessons, has brought me happiness, money, and good parking spaces. Really.

    You already know that what you're doing now isn't working for you.
    So make some changes in your life.
    Do things that make you happy.

    --Paint your bedroom
    --Buy some good books (or borrow them from the library
    --Plant some flowers
    --Go on a gay cruise
    --Go out to a bar and sign up to play pool.
    --Join a gym. Maybe hire a trainer.
    --Go for a walk, everyday.
    --Make dinner and invite your friends over.
    --Treat yourself to something nice.

    Good luck.
    Hugs.

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    Jun 20, 2011 9:44 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidThe problem is that you are looking to others to make you happy, when you can only make yourself happy. As some have already said, you may be suffering from depression. Get to a doctor and see if that's what's dragging you down.

    Having pets is a great thing to do for yourself.

    Go on amazon.com and get a cheap paperback copy of Louise Hay's book, "You Can Heal Your Life." That little book, and practicing it's lessons, has brought me happiness, money, and good parking spaces. Really.

    You already know that what you're doing now isn't working for you.
    So make some changes in your life.
    Do things that make you happy.

    --Paint your bedroom
    --Buy some good books (or borrow them from the library
    --Plant some flowers
    --Go on a gay cruise
    --Go out to a bar and sign up to play pool.
    --Join a gym. Maybe hire a trainer.
    --Go for a walk, everyday.
    --Make dinner and invite your friends over.
    --Treat yourself to something nice.

    Good luck.
    Hugs.




    I really do appreciate your help Webster, I already regularly change my room (decoration wise), I started reading recently, I have a small garden in the balcony, I walk and run, I cook but for the family and I treat myself, the only thing I can't do is go on a Gay Cruise or Join a gym coz i hate gyms icon_smile.gificon_smile.gif

    Maybe i'll seek a professional consultation then... icon_smile.gificon_smile.gificon_smile.gif

    But i really appreciate ur thoughts and Hugs! Thanks!! icon_smile.gificon_smile.gif
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    Jun 20, 2011 9:51 PM GMT
    Amgad saidGuys, I need to have someone in my life who can take me somewhere new, someone who knows me, who i can rely on, who is funny and someone I can come out to...... I feel like am carrying a burden on my shoulders and even if I came out to the world it won't change anything when I'm alone, it will be just another man who said he is gay! :S I'm so tired and I dunno what to do!!

    I think you've been depressed!........ If you think you are depressed, you’re not alone. Depression is far more common than you may think!........ No matter what you believe, someone loves you and care about you! " including your dog" cuz HE LOVES YOU " I hope you feel better soon.Free Smilies courtesy of www.GreenSmilies.com
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    Jun 21, 2011 4:33 PM GMT
    You are right man! icon_neutral.gif

    Deep inside me, i always, know that one day I'll be able to get over it here or somewhere else!

    The fact AntiJock is that I dun care if we walk in the street holding hands or whatever, we can see that a lot in here, but the fact to admit to oneself that he is gay and he is going out with another gay man, u start looking around urself in the street wondering does anyone see me? Will any family or friend catch me?? and from there starts the problems and then people act like jerks...

    But as i said, ONE DAY, everything will change and I know deep deep deep deep inside that i will find someone who gives a damn for me.

    Cross ur Fingers... icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 21, 2011 11:27 PM GMT
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    Jun 21, 2011 11:58 PM GMT

    So do I; actually, I need six friends, who are really cool and really powerful; who always do the right thing and aren't afraid of severe fashion.
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    Jun 22, 2011 3:11 AM GMT
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    Jun 22, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    U made me realize now, and took the decision to just live my life as much happy as I can, I know that I shouldn;t be influenced by others, I've always been living being myself's biggest fan. Its just that sometimes u come to think, Am I always going to be like that? Alone, without love?? But guys I do really appreciate ur efforts trying to help me, coz by giving me advice, i feel better already and supported. You really and truly did help me!! Thanks a million guys!! ur the best!! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif