Losing My Virginity

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    Jun 21, 2011 5:53 AM GMT
    I'm dating a guy I like right now and I know sex is gonna come up soon (maybe days from now). I want my first time to go really well and I read somewhere on-line that taking a shower together can help loosen you up (among other things).

    Is there anything else I can do to ease the tension, before I lose my virginity?
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    Jun 21, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    By losing your virginity do you mean taking it up the ass?

    If so, take a shower together and make sure you're both squeaky clean. Do a lot of foreplay before hand, and I've heard rimming helps loosen it up pretty well. But again, make sure you're both really clean.

    Lots and lots and lots of foreplay. When it's finally that time, make sure he goes slow and DON'T GET STRESSED!

    That's my best advice for you. Hopefully an actual bottom will come in here and give their advice since they'd know a lot more than me. ;D
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    Jun 21, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
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    Jun 21, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
    TheKrisPandemic saidBy losing your virginity do you mean taking it up the ass?

    If so, take a shower together and make sure you're both squeaky clean. Do a lot of foreplay before hand, and I've heard rimming helps loosen it up pretty well. But again, make sure you're both really clean.

    Lots and lots and lots of foreplay. When it's finally that time, make sure he goes slow and DON'T GET STRESSED!

    That's my best advice for you. Hopefully an actual bottom will come in here and give their advice since they'd know a lot more than me. ;D

    Actually, that is generally the advice one would give.
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    Practice on yourself, even if it's just a finger or two if you're going to bottom. Get used to the feeling and what not. The more it feels natural-ish to you, the better you'll have it when it comes down to the moment.
    And that post with alcohol? It can actually help loosen up and easing your mind.

    Like he said... take your time... after a while there won't be any pressure and you'll just be able to go at it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    I would think I'm versatile actually, but either way I'll still be a bit nervous. The fingering sounds like something I will try out though.

    Can't say the same for the alcohol though lol :p

    Thanks for the help guys. Really appreciate it.
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    Aww no alcohol? How about roofies? I hear they work really well! icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 22, 2011 10:26 AM GMT
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    paulflexes saidAww no alcohol? How about roofies? I hear they work really well!


    LOL. No thanks, but I'll keep that in mind. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 22, 2011 10:41 AM GMT
    If you're going to bottom, please douche!

    It's much better for the top and it will be better for you, not being worried about any mess. If you're relaxed and well prepared it shouldn't hurt. Make sure he goes slowly and you control the speed and depth of penetration until it feels comfortable enough for him to take over.

    Lube and condoms!!