Male escorting

  • travvfit

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    Jun 21, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    Whats our opinions about it?
    It seems to be fine with guys but my friend (SHE) does it and she gets judged.
    I mean if your a slut icon_twisted.gif and safe why not get paid for doing it, instead of giving it away for free
    LOL!
    I think its alright for those who are ok having multi sleeping partners.
    Travv
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    Jun 21, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    There are two reasons I would never do it.

    First, it seems to me like it would have a serious impact on any intimacy I could build with a partner.

    Second, it seems to me to be one of those things easy to get into and hard to get out of, like the Army, a psych ward or the mafia.

    I think some people don't have a lot of choices and I don't judge them for making that choice, but if you have better choices, I don't know why anyone would expose themselves to that.
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    Jun 22, 2011 2:48 PM GMT
    shortguybeau saidThere are two reasons I would never do it.

    First, it seems to me like it would have a serious impact on any intimacy I could build with a partner.

    Second, it seems to me to be one of those things easy to get into and hard to get out of, like the Army, a psych ward or the mafia.

    I think some people don't have a lot of choices and I don't judge them for making that choice, but if you have better choices, I don't know why anyone would expose themselves to that.


    Your statement is shared with a number of guys that were interviewed for this book I have called Escort, 40 profiles with photographs of men who sell sex by David Leddick and Heriberto Sanchez. Some guys say that they don't seem to be able to leave the industry because they're always on call, and jobs can be far and few between, if you don't leave yourself available 24/7 you don't get paid so it becomes a vicious cycle.

    In saying that I have considered escorting at the end of this year to help with debt and to save up for a holiday to the states that a friend wants to go on with me. I think I could do it short term because I live with family so I don't have any bills or rent to pay and I'll be out of my lease on the studio I rent for work. But who knows, that could be the same mindset that some guys have had and it didn't realize what they got into....
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    Jun 22, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    Yeah but the people who pays to have sex with you are usually ugly or old.

    You don't get to enjoy those sex. It's different.
  • travvfit

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    Jul 09, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    Yeah i agree most escorts i speak to they seem to have a very...Odd way of thinking and self absorbed in themselves because they are a product and they need to sell themselves.
    And to just get into it for debt and a holiday would be a good idea but what if you get a offer after youve said no to it?