_SAGE_ saidIf a guy is toooooooooooo strong with the lovey-dovey stuff from the very get-go of talking to one another (e.g. before even meeting/dating) with all of the over familiar 'baby'/'honey' talk or grandiose romantic plans before even getting to know me properly, the alarm bells would defo start ringing in my head.
These personality types, i've found at least, tend to be emotionally binary between the extremes- no middle ground, generally unrealistic and grandiose, irrational and prone to switching the love-switch off (and quickly moving on the the next just as strongly) just as quick and easily as they appear to have turned it on with you in the first place, if their plans with you do not go exactly as they had hoped and imagined them to.
If he can be so full-on familiar and lovey-dovey with somebody from the genesis of first contact, i'd personally wonder if this is just how he always initially conducts himself with every new guy he likes when he starts to talk to them, as a way of projecting a desired illusion he hopes the other will immediately partake in and fulfill the romantic 'role' he clearly wants cast so desperately. The person could be anybody who fits his criteria; the romantic scenario and role he wants filled is more important than the person who fills it, i'd assume, as he obviously doesn't know enough about the person in question yet to realistically have much sincerity or gravitas behind his forward words and demeanor.
If you're hoping for something more than temporary, albeit likely emotionally intense and otherwise all consuming, with this guy, I'd tread with caution until I could rule this out as a possibility. Personally.
This is kind of what is going through my mind with this guy at the moment. While he seems to like me, we are taking it slow, and waiting to see how the talk on the phone goes, then a visit or two.
I think one of the reasons why he likes me is because he wants to live in San Francisco, and Im up here.
At least he is smart enough to find someone before moving here, lol.
And, the other thing too, its not like he tells me he "loves" me or anything like that, he just wants to watch a romantic movie with me.