Selfish or Giving?

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    Jun 21, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
    Would you consider yourself more giving or more selfish when it comes time to get down and dirty icon_smile.gif
  • Bunjamon

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    Jun 21, 2011 11:55 PM GMT
    All about giving for me. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 21, 2011 11:55 PM GMT
    giving
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:07 AM GMT

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    Giving
    I give, then you give, just as good as I give or I kell you.
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    Giving feels good, which is why one must learn to appreciate the art of being selfish and let your partner enjoy pleasing you.
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:10 AM GMT
    Well I am happy to say my every day activities show I am a very caring giving guy. No issues with taking the shirt of my own back to help a mate either, and I also have a reputation for walking that extra mile in my job to help another. I get to turn my light off at the end of the day well knowing I did my best, and helped Oz be a better place. I'm good.
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:11 AM GMT
    I'm too diplomatic. I give and receive; though I get off on giving a guy a good time and not a lot of work ;-)
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    True_blue_aussie saidWell I am happy to say my every day activities show I am a very caring giving guy. No issues with taking the shirt of my own back to help a mate either, and I also have a reputation for walking that extra mile in my job to help another. I get to turn my light off at the end of the day well knowing I did my best, and helped Oz be a better place. I'm good.


    ^ Yeah, but do you prefer giving, receiving, or 69. icon_surprised.gif
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    Jun 22, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    Depends on my mood...

    Sometimes I'm a selfish B***h icon_twisted.gif (especially on my birthday)

    Other's, I want to do nothing but please my mate as long as possible. Either way, in the end we are both very happy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 22, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    Half and half. I aspire to rule the world, but I give a lot to my friends.
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    Jun 22, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
    Half and half. I love giving, I love receiving.
  • nubScotty

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    Jun 22, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    Much more of a giver, I can almost get off just from giving head it's such an incredible turn on for me; enjoy it more than receiving head more often than not icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 22, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    Oof!
    I learned a lesson about giving over the past year. I'm learning to appreciate selfishness.
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    Jun 22, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    n8698u saidOof!
    I learned a lesson about giving over the past year. I'm learning to appreciate selfishness.


    After cleaning the apartment, paying the bills, walking the dog, doing the laundry, entertaining the in-laws, I think I've earned some selfishness. icon_wink.gif
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jun 25, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    n8698u saidOof!
    I learned a lesson about giving over the past year. I'm learning to appreciate selfishness.


    And you deserve that too. You need to meet up with a "giver."
  • matt13226

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    Jun 25, 2011 2:28 AM GMT
    i would say both but more towards the selfish side
  • JP85257

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    Jun 25, 2011 2:28 AM GMT
    Id like to say a mixture of both. Depends on the person and situation.

    For Example: I will go in to a Circle K to get myself a bottle of water, so I will usually get 2 just in case I see someone outside while Im driving around that looks thirsty. It usually winds up being homeless dudes at the freeway.

    If you are too giving people perceive you as a door mat.
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    Jun 25, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    Giving
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    Jun 25, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    Giving, several guys (that I hadn't slept with...yet lol) have said to me that I prolly just lie there and look cute without doing anything, I don't know if I give such a vibe, but I'm all about pleasing the guy I'm with.

    Ok, I'm confused we're talkin about sex right?! haha and giving is not an analogy for toppin, is it? cuz if it is then I'm not a giver lol
  • Aquanerd

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    Jun 25, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidGiving feels good, which is why one must learn to appreciate the art of being selfish and let your partner enjoy pleasing you.


    You are to be commended!
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    Jun 25, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    SoCalScotty saidMuch more of a giver, I can almost get off just from giving head it's such an incredible turn on for me; enjoy it more than receiving head more often than not icon_twisted.gif


    +1

    Same here, but I even go a step further, I hate receiving head, I really do, but I absolutely love giving ROFL
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    Jun 25, 2011 2:36 AM GMT
    jackjameson41 saidWould you consider yourself more giving or more selfish when it comes time to get down and dirty icon_smile.gif


    Basically you want to know who is a selfish lover? I knew that, just clarifying.
  • wild_sky360

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    Jun 25, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    Definitely a giver.