Common complaint: Guy X doesn't like me/talk to me/respond to me

  • rf_dal

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    Jun 22, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    Common answer for them all: It's about him, not you. Yes, it's really that simple. It's impossible to be perfect for everyone, so when you're not for someone you happen to like it's unfortunate, but shouldn't be surprising. If everyone were attracted to everyone things would be pretty boring probably. icon_smile.gif Embrace the fact that you're a beautiful person no matter what, and will be to someone. When you find them it'll be much more meaningful than if it had been the first six pack that wandered in front of you. /soapbox
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    Jun 22, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    Haha, thanks for that. Made this little office manager smile! icon_smile.gif
  • bad_wolf

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    Jun 22, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    So we're hated by every gay in the city...that's just great =o)
  • rf_dal

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    Jun 22, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
    bad_wolf saidSo we're hated by every gay in the city...that's just great =o)


    lol that's not what I said icon_razz.gif
  • rf_dal

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    Jun 22, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    I don't think physical characteristics determine the quality of a mate, I have to disagree there I'm afraid
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    Jun 22, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    Why do you give a shit what other people think about you? Work on yourself, make yourself into someone you admire and other people will see it too. Saying oh boo fuckity who if only I had a six pack or if only I was taller is stupid. You don't have a six pack? Who cares, contrary to most magazines and guys on this site, most people don't have a six pack, hell some people just aren't made to have a six pack. It's your attitude that makes you unattractive to people, especially if you're whining about something stupid. I hate when people get down on themselves. You gotta be your biggest fuckig cheerleader in life yo. No one else is gonna rep for you if you don't. So don't worry about what this or that guy looks like worry about your star fucking player and do you and I promise everything else will fall into place. Op has it right.