Why do I hate gay guys.

  • southernT

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    Jun 23, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    I am gay and I am starting to hate all gay people. When I try to talk to them, they think i want to have sex with them, especially white people. When I talk to the Latino, they all lie to me and their profile is not match with the real person. Gay guy who is atheletic, they think they above the world. Is this really how gay people behave? I am sadly disapointed. If God give me a chance not to be gay, I will choose not be gay. It is not I dont like who I am. I love who I am, but I don't feel like gay community is so brutal. I think i am give up lookin for another person. Any advice guys?
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:16 AM GMT
    Where to start???????
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    I get 'along' with straight or bi guys better

    They tend to be more secure and have their shit together

    and dont party all the time party all the time party all the tiiime
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    fasterpace saidI get 'along' with straight or bi guys better

    They tend to be more secure and have their shit together

    and dont party all the time party all the time party all the tiiime


    You are right for the most part. But you neglected the fact that they're also really boring, have no sense of humor, and don't give a shit about how they look, or about their health.

    I'm not sure if gay guys don't have their shit together. There are a lot of gay overachievers. At least the ones I'm hanging out with.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    you have to start by stopping generalizing the gay community. Its not impossible to find that someone, basically cause based on what youre telling us, if you were straight youd be a total homophic like you are right now with the difference that you wouldnt have to deal with it. Remember if the world seems like its against you, youre either frequenting a very small world or the problem is you and not the world.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    cityaznguy said
    fasterpace saidI get 'along' with straight or bi guys better

    They tend to be more secure and have their shit together

    and dont party all the time party all the time party all the tiiime


    You are right for the most part. But you neglected the fact that they're also really boring, have no sense of humor, and don't give a shit about how they look, or about their health.

    I'm not sure if gay guys don't have their shit together. There are a lot of gay overachievers. At least the ones I'm hanging out with.


    You shouldnt choose my friends based on sexual orientation period. I so far see no difference between straight and gays, personality wise, I guess it all depends on where youre getting your friends from. I have just as many gay friends as straight friends and they all get along and we all party together.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:26 AM GMT
    Well, its kind of stupid that you reduce your dislike of gays by race.
    EVERYBODY, and I mean, everybody knows that I will love white dudes more than I love myself until the day I die. Some are douche bags, but most are incredibly nice decent dudes! Same with Black guys and Latino guys, they make good friends but I'm just not attracted to them.
    What's this thread about again, sorry I got distracted by the thought of white dudes.
    Gays, oh yeah, I hate them too, grrrrr they piss me off!
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    How someone's personality is does not have anything to do with their sexuality. If you keep bumping into gay or straight people that are fake and "don't have their shit together", then either a) you're looking for friends in the wrong place and/or b) you don't know how to find friends.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    You are basically saying you dont like people. Because you just described a huge number of them gay or straight. I think you are going places where you are not going to meet the type of people you are looking for. Sounds like you are trolling sex sites looking for a boyfriend or friend. Not the best place to start.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:34 AM GMT
    charlitos said
    cityaznguy said
    fasterpace saidI get 'along' with straight or bi guys better

    They tend to be more secure and have their shit together

    and dont party all the time party all the time party all the tiiime


    You are right for the most part. But you neglected the fact that they're also really boring, have no sense of humor, and don't give a shit about how they look, or about their health.

    I'm not sure if gay guys don't have their shit together. There are a lot of gay overachievers. At least the ones I'm hanging out with.


    You shouldnt choose my friends based on sexual orientation period. I so far see no difference between straight and gays, personality wise, I guess it all depends on where youre getting your friends from. I have just as many gay friends as straight friends and they all get along and we all party together.


    I was just being sarcastic....

    I can care less if my friends are gay or not. I always see the person first, then other things second, if at all. But there are exceptions though; I don't like racists... icon_smile.gif
  • SomeSiciliano...

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    Jun 23, 2011 1:36 AM GMT

    When I start hating my own kind (and yes, ive been there) I have to take a look at what kind of people am i associating with and where am I finding them. I'm not trying to be an apologist for cultural stupidity...but stupidity is universal and hardly exclusive to the gay community.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:41 AM GMT
    QUOTEYou are right for the most part. But you neglected the fact that they're also really boring, have no sense of humor, and don't give a shit about how they look, or about their health.


    I find 'straight' humor to be a lot funnier and much more varied than 'gay' humor honestly. The stuff that passes for humor in gay circles... ugh, so formulaic with such little thought and depth that I'm pretty sure a 3 parameter function would be more than enough to fit any gay joke. So predictable and lame.

    (I know people here get offended by generalizations so just to clarify I'm not saying that all gay guys use that humor, but in most gay circles).

    With that said, there are quality gay guys out there. It took a while but I've met a few over the years, so don't play the victim. If you don't like the gay guys you see in the places you see them, you should probably go find them in different places or contexts.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
    Well I have to admit, ive met some gay douches, thats usually because they are hateful people though.. but its not just cause they are gay, cuz I know plenty of uber-hateful straight people as well..

    And well, ive met some fantastic gay people too, so I wouldnt worry and let these few get you down.. Dont think they're all this way, cuz if yo stay open and meet more, you'll find out they aren't
  • southernT

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    Jun 23, 2011 2:08 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidYou are basically saying you dont like people. Because you just described a huge number of them gay or straight. I think you are going places where you are not going to meet the type of people you are looking for. Sounds like you are trolling sex sites looking for a boyfriend or friend. Not the best place to start.


    Dude. I am talking about gay guys. I'm not talking about other straight people. So where should I start to look for decent n good people.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:14 AM GMT
    southernT said
    Dallasfan824 saidYou are basically saying you dont like people. Because you just described a huge number of them gay or straight. I think you are going places where you are not going to meet the type of people you are looking for. Sounds like you are trolling sex sites looking for a boyfriend or friend. Not the best place to start.


    Dude. I am talking about gay guys. I'm not talking about other straight people. So where should I start to look for decent n good people.


    Anywhere where you would have something in common...

    I mean seriously its not being gay thats the issue, a many straight guys have been crowned Lez Douche before as well.

    I mean, come the fuck on man, get over it realize being gay isnt that bad and move the fuck on in your life.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    charlitos saidyou have to start by stopping generalizing the gay community. Its not impossible to find that someone, basically cause based on what youre telling us, if you were straight youd be a total homophic like you are right now with the difference that you wouldnt have to deal with it. Remember if the world seems like its against you, youre either frequenting a very small world or the problem is you and not the world.



    HMMM. very well said C. I approve icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    southernT said
    Dallasfan824 saidYou are basically saying you dont like people. Because you just described a huge number of them gay or straight. I think you are going places where you are not going to meet the type of people you are looking for. Sounds like you are trolling sex sites looking for a boyfriend or friend. Not the best place to start.


    Dude. I am talking about gay guys. I'm not talking about other straight people. So where should I start to look for decent n good people.


    Well you're talking to us arent you? First off, dont be bothered with the posts that get you hyped up in a negative way, like the one up there.... Those will happen, and if you respond, you're only getting stuck in a negative spiral, which is when you start meeting the douches, cause you give them the negative attention they so crave....

    Instead, focus on the ones that have a positive effect on you, and pretty soon, you'll see a bunch of positive guys coming your way icon_smile.gif .. the negatives will still be there... but just ignore them... giving them attention is giving them what they want... icon_smile.gif you dont wanna do that! lol

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    Jun 23, 2011 2:22 AM GMT
    Here is what I learned in my 42 years of life. If you are having trouble relating to others, it's because you are having trouble relating to yourself.

    The OP is depressing. I would suggest contacting a therapist, and maybe getting on anti-depressants.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    Pray harder. God has been generous lately, maybe you'll turn straight one day.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:28 AM GMT
    have fun. breathe. relax, take off your pants more often"
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    But you don't hate them they you're having sex with them, right? icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    southernT said
    Dallasfan824 saidYou are basically saying you dont like people. Because you just described a huge number of them gay or straight. I think you are going places where you are not going to meet the type of people you are looking for. Sounds like you are trolling sex sites looking for a boyfriend or friend. Not the best place to start.


    Dude. I am talking about gay guys. I'm not talking about other straight people. So where should I start to look for decent n good people.


    if you hate gay people, maybe you should start with loving yourself.

    the drama and games you are experiencing happens with young straight people too. only it is typically the women who complain about guys just into them for sex and being liers.

    just flirt with guys you are interseted in. if he is single or straight, he wont flirt back.

    PS: GREENHOPPER had good advise in his last post. dont bother with people who have excess negativity.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:46 AM GMT

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    Not nice to piss all over gay men like this...^ ^ All people can be brutal and just like if you had been straight, some people are good and others bad. That little fact doesn't cease to exist with straights. However, birds of a feather do flock together; especially with gays, the rotten ones tend to clique up, this makes them easier to avoid or at least recognize. Some areas actually breed a nastier variety of gays. I believe less accepting environments do (gay clubs included). Just like any people, gays flourish in a nourishing environment: research gay friendly places, and states. Especially in bigger cities there have got to be better more accepting places to meet men than clubs. If you were straight and you only met women in clubs, you'd have similar success as you do now. broaden your horizons.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:53 AM GMT
    YoungjockMN said
    the drama and games you are experiencing happens with young straight people too. only it is typically the women who complain about guys just into them for sex and being liers.


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    Jun 23, 2011 2:56 AM GMT
    southernT said Any advice guys?
    yeah, start by knocking the chip off your shoulder.