This website blows..

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    Jun 23, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    I tried to give a chance but most (not all) of the people here are just too clicky and holier than thou for me.
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:35 PM GMT
    You have 11 people on your buddy list, so it's not as though people aren't talking to you... icon_rolleyes.gif

    People will probably talk with others who they are more familiar with. That's just human nature. Unless you jump into conversations and say your piece, nobody will talk to you. I see you have over 100 posts, so it seems as though you are doing that as well. Are people not responding to you?
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    Jun 23, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    Pyrotech saidYou have 11 people on your buddy list, so it's not as though people aren't talking to you... icon_rolleyes.gif

    People will probably talk with others who they are more familiar with. That's just human nature. Unless you jump into conversations and say your piece, nobody will talk to you. I see you have over 100 posts, so it seems as though you are doing that as well. Are people not responding to you?


    well thats why i say most but not all.. ive met a couple cool people here. But as a whole, I dont think I fit in with this community.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    Aww don't say that. I'm not part of any cliche thing.. In fact I usually free float! You are most welcome to talk with me anytime! In fact I'll buddy list you for my sincerity

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    Jun 23, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    I don't think I fit in with this community either, but it doesn't stop me from wasting time in the morning instead of getting ready for work. Just try not to take the website very seriously. Many of us come here and post for a couple months, then move on, then come back, then move on... just like any online forum.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:29 PM GMT

    Well, we don't fit in with this community either, In fact, I'll bet no one fits in with this community because this site is full of people from all kinds of communities.

    This site isn't a box of cherry chocolates or Turtles. It's a box of chocolates where no two are the same.

    And for Ariodante, should he grace this topic, this site isn't like a bag of chocolate chip cookies; it's a variety pack.

    So to fit in here, you have to not fit in. icon_wink.gif


    Make sense?

    Good.

    1daman23 you've made some great buddies on your profile so far. I'd think they'd be worth sticking around for.


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    Jun 23, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    What community/cliques are we talking about? Forum posters? Any assumption that there is cohesion on this site is a bit exaggerated.
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    Jun 23, 2011 2:41 PM GMT
    The hot people stick together. So hot right now. People.

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    Jun 23, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    i can fully relate from when i first joined. i stuck around, and now i find myself on the forums a lot.
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    Jun 23, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    sucks i cant vote you man of the day. This website sucks, we all know that but we still dont care, stick around. I also wanted to close my account during my first year on here but in the end you can always take a brake and come back. Focus more on topics that have nothing to do with politics and religion or dating and relationships, try to avoid those since thats where most flamewars are born. Trust me there are a LOT of amazing guys on this site.
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    Jun 23, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    There are plenty of self-righteous guys on this site. I'll agree with you there. But I don't see the "clique-y" thing going on. Perhaps I'm not looking in the right place.
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    Jun 23, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    I find people are nice and warm here, just have to get over yourself, show who you really are and not be afraid of what people say. If you can't take critisim, well, you should probably not be allowed to post anywhere on the internet.
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    Jun 23, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    Wait, wuh.....there's a clique!?

    No one told me. I guess I'm not part of the clique either.

    Good! Don't take this site too seriously man!
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    Jun 23, 2011 4:37 PM GMT
    Thanks for the sincerity. Like I said, I have met some cool people here.. But, I'm still in limbo on this site as far as if I will keep my profile or delete it
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    Jun 23, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    The only reason I haven't deleted my profile is because of the workouts here - they are very good and I'm seeing results.

    Most of the people I e-mail here I could e-mail on FB or gmail (and many I do).

    I still waste time reading the forums and can't seem to tear myself away. It's like a bad reality show.
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    Jun 23, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    the site is what you make of it. I don't need it to make friends or fuck buds here. Have alot of friends from HS college work and life. If I want a f/b I can get that without the internet anyday. It's a choice. Firm believer quality beats quantity anyday.icon_idea.gif
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    Jun 23, 2011 10:43 PM GMT
    It is a very good website. It is probably the best gay website. There are all kinds of men on here. The athletic and workout forums are great. The forums on politics, religion, social viewpoints are good but things can get a bit heated at times because we all have our opinions and viewpoints. Don't let the small number of arrogant jerks chase you off of here. Stick around.
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    Jun 23, 2011 10:51 PM GMT
    1daman23 saidI tried to give a chance but most (not all) of the people here are just too clicky and holier than thou for me.



    You're probably just not unlocking your private photos enough.
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    Jun 23, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    ...Whatever! Don't let us stop you!......you get from this site what you put into it....if you are negative, you will be ignored or get lots of negativity back....What is your favorite website and what about it makes it your favorite?
    enjoy.....
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    Jun 23, 2011 11:14 PM GMT
    +2 on the making individual connections with people. You can't be friends with a URL.
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    Jun 23, 2011 11:58 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidYou can't be friends with a URL.


    I'm planning on proposing marriage to Reddit.
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    Jun 24, 2011 12:37 AM GMT
    Pyrotech said
    Ariodante saidYou can't be friends with a URL.


    I'm planning on proposing marriage to Reddit.


    I got an STD from 4chan icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 24, 2011 12:51 AM GMT
    1daman23 saidI tried to give a chance but most (not all) of the people here are just too clicky and holier than thou for me.


    I agree. I'm on here much less than I used to be. Every time an OP asks for advice, immediately some fuckwad says EXACTLY what the OP specifically said they DIDN'T want advice on. Every time someone makes a thread some faggot has to tout that they know more information and found out sooner. Every time some fucking dumbass attention whore posts a story, every one else tells their own personal story and the thread reads like a fucking conversation between a pack of narcissistic Jewish women with schizophrenia.
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    Jun 24, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
    You don't fit in? Congrats! I officially diagnose your personality as...normal.
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    Jun 24, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    Actually I've found the vast majority of guys on here are really nice. Most everyone is very friendly. Sure, there are a few who are difficult, but I find them few and far between. Keep trying and you'll run into plenty of good people here.