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    Apr 17, 2008 10:51 PM GMT
    so y'know when you see a guy or you get to know a guy and your just like...ohmygod....im crazy about him! like even if its a guy you just see, or a guy you half know through friends or whatever. anyway this guy is like your ideal and u have a huge crush and before you go to bed at night you have all thos fantasies about how ye would get together and these little thoughts get you through the day...aw...

    where am i going with this?


    anyway, has anyone ever actually gotten with/kissed/etc... with their huge massive crush obsession guy? like maybe you thought he didnt even know who you were? or maybe you admired him from before afar and then ye got to know each other and then ye got together!

    anyway the reason im thinking about this is because my friend was obsessed with this one guy for ages and he was always depressed when he thought nothing would ever happen between them. they became friends for ages, grew close and then they ended up going to the cinema and then the beach and had this most amazing night ever and kissed at the end and it was perfect and i was just wondering if anything similar has happened to anyone in this forum??

    thoughts??

    happy thread!! yay!!
  • mcwclewis

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    Apr 18, 2008 1:40 AM GMT
    Not to me


    I got to cuddle with a guy that I had a huge crush on but he made it rather clear that that was as much as he was comfortable with. That was really all I wanted anyways icon_wink.gif

    Congrats to your friend
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    Apr 18, 2008 2:19 AM GMT
    When I worked as a lumberjack. I new guy come alone. Andy. Blond deep blue eyes. We become mates. were for many years. The girls went crazy over him, and I was in lust. Then He stayed over one night, in my bed. For my B'day. We had a moment that night. But I never wanted anymore after that. I truly miss him as a mate.

    Same job, diffrent mate. we roomed for a time. I was best man at his wedding. I left the bush, and was in the process of leaving him in the past.

    Got invited dawn for the christening of their first child. He started a fight with his wife that night. She went home to mum, with kid. Then he made the move. he had wanted to make for years. just did not have the balls, in case I outed him.

    I got to see a side of him, I had never seen before. A side I found distasteful. Oh all the death threats, and shit to make sure I did not out him. Had no intentions of doing so. But this made One call his wife.

    Oh Andy how I still miss you as a mate......
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    Apr 18, 2008 2:23 AM GMT
    No. Every guy I've had one of those puppy love kind of crushes on has turned out to be completely straight. icon_cry.gif
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    Apr 18, 2008 3:33 AM GMT
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    Apr 18, 2008 3:38 AM GMT
    No.
    He made two or three HUGE passes at me, but I couldn't even comprehend the concept that he might be interested, and didn't figure it out until a month later, when he was two thousand miles gone.
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 18, 2008 3:38 AM GMT
    Hehe, some people have WAY too much time on their hands.
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    Apr 18, 2008 5:38 AM GMT
    I had a massive crush on the Hottest guy in High School. All the girls were over him like bees on honey and he was the typical sexy bad boy jock. Mr. Tall dark and fine. I never thought he noticed me and furthermore he was "straight" but one day in PE he proved me wrong or maybe he was just curious. After that lets just say things heated up pretty quickly to the point where I was massaging his dick under the secrecy of the desk during class infront of the teachers almost everyday. God that boy had a huge dick. (What was I thinking? I could have gotten caught) Yes, some people might have noticed but if they did they didn't say anything. Everything was fine until he started to get a little brazen and out of control with his public affection for me and I just had to end it. His girlfriend never really liked me and I don't know why.
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    Apr 18, 2008 5:54 AM GMT
    Hmm - OK my first was a guy I met at a party - who called me a couple of months later - it was in the 80's (yeah - I know...) and the last was a Hollywood celeb who I met at a camp outside of Seattle..... I still remember that night... icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 18, 2008 7:30 AM GMT
    I got to cuddle with the first guy I've ever fallen in love with a few times - he was straight. Those were bittersweet experiences. icon_cry.gif

    Those were some of the happiest moments of my life and also the saddest.

    Before this thread devolves into a Sad thread... I'll stop. LOL

    Moah happy stories please! icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 18, 2008 12:11 PM GMT
    graffitimysoul said
    anyway, has anyone ever actually gotten with/kissed/etc... with their huge massive crush obsession guy? like maybe you thought he didn't even know who you were? or maybe you admired him from before afar and then ye got to know each other and then ye got together!


    Yep!

    When I first moved to Baltimore about 15 years ago, I used to see this guy our and about that I thought was one of the most gorgeous men ever. I never spoke to him though...I'm shy.

    Two years ago, I was online on Gay.com, and saw his profile on there. I decided I had nothing to lose, so I sent him a message to say hi. He replied...we chatted a few more times. Eventually, he asked me out to a movie. Come to find out, he remembered the first time he saw me out at one of the gay bars (right down to the shirt I was wearing :shockicon_smile.gif, and apparently he had a crush on me as well. icon_biggrin.gif

    We dated for about 4 months or so...unfortunately, he turned out to be crazy...big time!

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    Jun 20, 2008 2:21 AM GMT
    yeah, I'm glad you've reminded me that it can happen, because often it's easier to think of the times that it hasn't worked out.

    my recent happy experience was quite simple. we just enjoyed each other's company as much as we could, until the semester ended (too soon). just having a hand to hold in our middle-of-nowhere conservative little town was exciting, and about all I needed to be happy.


    it wasn't exactly like my before-sleep fantasies coming completely true, but then again, i never actually say the words that i dream up. i'm beginning to think maybe i should.
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    Jun 20, 2008 3:09 AM GMT
    i had a huge crush on an acquaintance's friend, i met him when i was out and about. talked with him briefly, and flirted but didn't get a chance to do anything about it.

    a month later, on the night of my birthday, ran into him again. He pulled me close and made out with me then wished me happy birthday.

    woo-hoo! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 20, 2008 11:41 AM GMT
    see, its good to hear these stories too, its better to focus on the happy times than the crushes that nothing ever comes out of!