crush on straight guys!

  • foryouolders

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    Jun 25, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    what if you had a crush on a straight guy that he does not know your gay? what would you do? you tell him youre falling for him...and how can you get him in bed? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 25, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    I think a better question would be who hasn't had a crush on a straight guy..icon_razz.gif

    In terms of what I'd do, absolutely nothing. He's straight, end of. The whole unrequited love thing is so overrated.
  • lykewise

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    Jun 25, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    I agree!
    Why would you want to make a guy thats not into you sleep with you.
    I would rather want someone who is just as into it as I am...
  • Lincsbear

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    Jun 25, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    Hi there,
    I`ve had more than a few!It`s difficult,but you have to accept he`s not going to be interested in you,and you shouldn`t try to make him like you.Find someone who does,and hey,you might get together....
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    Jun 25, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    Oy! This thread has been done 4,435,867 times but what the hell.
    I think straight dudes are the reason that I'll never have a relationship with another man.
    The guys at my gym have ruined me for other guys... No guy I see lives up to those guys icon_sad.gif
  • docbailey2005

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    Jun 25, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    Not sure if i'd call it a crush but i seem to prefer the straight bi curious type period. Doesn't help that i'm not very aggressive so they never know and i often am kept wondering if they're bi/gay etc. sucks!
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    Jun 25, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    get him drunk. works for me every time.
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    Jun 25, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidget him drunk. works for me every time.


    DITTO! Been there.....done that.....burned the t-shirt. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • ArcherZH

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    Jun 25, 2011 5:52 PM GMT
    icon_cool.gif.....value our lives and keep away from straight guys.........icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 25, 2011 6:03 PM GMT
    Play the "chicken" game and see how far things can get. You'd be surprised.
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    Jun 25, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidget him drunk. works for me every time.


    Oh shit, that sounds hot!!!!!!!
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    Jun 25, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    pretend to be straight too and convince him to experiment. The best way to get him is by introducing a girl in the equation. A lot of straight guys are willing to experiment with other guys even more if theres a girl in the same room.
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    Jun 25, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    charlitos saidpretend to be straight too and convince him to experiment. The best way to get him is by introducing a girl in the equation. A lot of straight guys are willing to experiment with other guys even more if theres a girl in the same room.


    A girl??? Hellz nah! No girl will come between me and my straight guy! ;)
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    Jun 25, 2011 6:36 PM GMT
    CHIdude said
    Dallasfan824 saidget him drunk. works for me every time.


    Oh shit, that sounds hot!!!!!!!


    oh i could spin you a tale.....it was.
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    Jun 25, 2011 6:39 PM GMT
    colombus saidwhat if you had a crush on a straight guy that he does not know your gay? what would you do? you tell him youre falling for him...and how can you get him in bed? icon_biggrin.gif


    Waste of time.

    Just as productive as falling for a plant.

    There's plenty of hot guys who are actually into cock. Why waste time.
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    Jun 25, 2011 7:22 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said
    CHIdude said
    Dallasfan824 saidget him drunk. works for me every time.


    Oh shit, that sounds hot!!!!!!!


    oh i could spin you a tale.....it was.


    Tell tell tell! My straight buddies would never go for any gay action (I think).
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    Jun 25, 2011 8:20 PM GMT
    CHIdude saidOy! This thread has been done 4,435,867 times but what the hell.
    I think straight dudes are the reason that I'll never have a relationship with another man.
    The guys at my gym have ruined me for other guys... No guy I see lives up to those guys icon_sad.gif
    Really? Not even my gay wrestler friend who's so hot he almost turned me straight?
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    Jun 25, 2011 8:29 PM GMT
    I would get to know him, becoming accquaintances. I'd show, rather than tell that I was interested, and if it eventually lead to sex...great. But something tells me afterwards he'd try to pretend it didn't happen, ignore me, etc.

    SO...the moral of the story is to find a gay guy. I know it seems SO much better because he's straight. But...why would he give up his life, girlfriends, everyone's opinion of him...just for you? He's straight and you have to accept it, or deal with heartbreak till the day he walks down the aisle with a woman you'll forever hate.

    No, what I just wrote isn't my life story (only 22 and still a virdge), but it's the story of many gay guys who can't accept that a guy is in the closet...or just isn't gay.
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    Jun 25, 2011 11:31 PM GMT
    colombus saidwhat if you had a crush on a straight guy that he does not know your gay? what would you do? you tell him youre falling for him...and how can you get him in bed? icon_biggrin.gif


    Would like a lovely straight lady to seduce you? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 25, 2011 11:33 PM GMT
    What are you, 16?
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    Jun 25, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    Ugh i'd marry a straight guy.. haha
  • Spiritreaver

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    Jun 25, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    I used to make a big deal about this. I don't even care anymore, now that I've managed to go out and meet more gay people, straight guys are less and less interesting. If anything, I find myself drawn to them as friends or workout buddies and I envy the strides they make in the gym, hah.

    So yeah, forget em, go out to the club or creep some dude on RJ. Who knows maybe the hot hunk from the gym will be the guy from your gym will be on here!

    Anyway, if I do somehow get a crush on a guy I don't know is gay. I will usually talk to him, try and make friends, and eventually break it to him that I'm gay. If he turns out gay, cool, if not, cool too.
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    Jun 25, 2011 11:40 PM GMT
    Spiritreaver saidI used to make a big deal about this. I don't even care anymore, now that I've managed to go out and meet more gay people, straight guys are less and less interesting. If anything, I find myself drawn to them as friends or workout buddies and I envy the strides they make in the gym, hah.

    So yeah, forget em, go out to the club or creep some dude on RJ. Who knows maybe the hot hunk from the gym will be the guy from your gym will be on here!

    Anyway, if I do somehow get a crush on a guy I don't know is gay. I will usually talk to him, try and make friends, and eventually break it to him that I'm gay. If he turns out gay, cool, if not, cool too.


    wait..... you're gay?!? yessssss
  • Vaughn

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    Jun 25, 2011 11:54 PM GMT
    colombus saidwhat if you had a crush on a straight guy that he does not know your gay? what would you do? you tell him youre falling for him...and how can you get him in bed? icon_biggrin.gif


    Uh.. If he's straight you should respect his space. When someone tells me they are straight, I assume they are saying no to any advances I might make. Lets say they are feeling a bit advant-garde., then the ball is in their court. When a clear, "No" is given then that is it. Do not pass go do not collect 200$. Crushing on heteros isn't very productive and you may risk offending them.

    It is annoying to me when I tell someone "No" and they continue to come on to me. Even when woman try to make me prove I am gay. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 26, 2011 11:15 AM GMT
    Honestly, I wouldn't go for the straight guy. He likes girls and there's no getting around it. There are plenty of other guys out there who aren't straight and just as deserving as a straight guy you most likely wouldn't have a chance in hell with. lol