Best night ever!

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    Jun 27, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    I told my roomate/best friend, i knew he was gonna flip, hes pretty homophobic, he was asleep on tha couch i said "hey man wake up, i got some important shit i gotta tell ya" he responded with a groggy "uh-huh" so i said "im gay" then i left for work about 30 seconds later, made it outside, then turned around, went back in (he was awake now) an said "u heard me right?" he said ya an i left for work again, i was so freaked out i didnt really know what to do, on my way to work i called some friends of mine about how it all happened, then i called my buddy daylon, he was pretty freaked, but said it was cool, (he called me back like 15 minutes later) said he still wanted me to be the godfather of their daughter = D then i called tinker and his wife an told them, they were totally cool bout it. Work flew by, was so weird i felt like my left leg was 3 inches longer than the right haha. So i get off work an decided ta tell mom, i called an chatted for a second then just said it, she was pretty blown awaybut ok with it, she said "honey, are you sure?" i thought that was pretty funny. Talked ta mom for over an hour, while i was talkin to mom i noticed my roomate was home, he hadnt moved out at least, but maybe he was gonn, so i continued to walk around the parking lot an talk ta mom, eventually he walks up an says "you doin cardio or what?" an then hands me a beer. Last night was the best night ever, i was standing on the edge of losing 5 of my best friends and they were all cool with it. I still gotta tell my brother an sister but theyll be ok with it too im sure. =D
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    Jun 27, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    Congratulations Johnny Hot Sauce.

    Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life.

    As of now my life is split in two, before I was out and after. After is much better :-).
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    Thanks man : D i dunno if ive ever been that scared, dunno how id deal with it if i ever lost even one of those people. An now i dont have ta lie an hide an all that stuff anymore
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    oh teh dramah
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    Johnnyhotsauce saidThanks man : D i dunno if ive ever been that scared, dunno how id deal with it if i ever lost even one of those people. An now i dont have ta lie an hide an all that stuff anymore


    Thats the nice thing about telling people your gay, is not lying to hide.

    I was at a wedding party this weekend where there was no reception. After the party, I told them we had to rush out to get on Grindr.

    "Whats grindr" one of the guys said.

    "Oh, its an app that gay men use to find each other for casual encounters of the naked kind."

    All the men unanimously agreed "That sounds fucking awesome"

    Oh the joys of being gay!
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    Congrats!! It's always nice to hear stories like these as it really puts a smile on my face.
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:22 PM GMT
    I think its gonna take a while to adjust ta tha reality of that tho,the roomate just realized he now has the best wingman ever now
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    Congrats and all the best!
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    Jun 27, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    socalfitness saidCongrats and all the best!



    Thanks man! It feels really good
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    Jun 27, 2011 8:11 PM GMT
    Congrats! And welcome to the "out" club. Grab a drink and enjoy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 27, 2011 8:19 PM GMT
    Thank god, the first thing that made me smile today! Congrats Johnny! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 27, 2011 8:21 PM GMT
    Congrats!

    I lost 3 close friends, countless others and my family over it. Some people just take to it better!

    That's really fucking awesome though!
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    Jun 27, 2011 8:29 PM GMT
    Congrats! Terrific that it went so well. And good luck with all that's ahead.
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    Jun 27, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    holy shit! Talk about coming out...I thought most people did it on a "one by one stage" not tell everyone within 24 hours of each other.

    Congrats man! Happy for ya
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    Jun 27, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    Nice job dude - nominated you MOTD for it.
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    Jun 27, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    swimmerdude521 saidholy shit! Talk about coming out...I thought most people did it on a "one by one stage" not tell everyone within 24 hours of each other.

    Congrats man! Happy for ya


    Haha ya i guess i jus got tired of it all an i kina jus thought fuck this, so tired of havin ta leave out important details with my best friends n family got a few more ta tell tonight after work, tha brother an sister might b kina hard but o well at work rt now, a few ppl hereAt work know, everyone has been super supportive
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    Jun 27, 2011 11:27 PM GMT
    Yay Johnny! You're the man and your Mom and friends and roomy are cool too. People love you anyway. This is so cool.

    I already voted MOTD today but you deserve it.
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    Jun 27, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    Johnnyhotsauce said
    swimmerdude521 saidholy shit! Talk about coming out...I thought most people did it on a "one by one stage" not tell everyone within 24 hours of each other.

    Congrats man! Happy for ya


    Haha ya i guess i jus got tired of it all an i kina jus thought fuck this, so tired of havin ta leave out important details with my best friends n family got a few more ta tell tonight after work, tha brother an sister might b kina hard but o well at work rt now, a few ppl here know, everyone has been super supportive
    You're in Orlando...of course nobody at work will give a shit. icon_lol.gif Plus, jobs can usually be replaced.
    It's the family that's the most stressful to tell. Mad props to you for doing it all at once.
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    Jun 27, 2011 11:34 PM GMT
    congrats man! i remember when i came out to my closest friends, felt like i was floating and my head was pounding...luckily the important people in my life stayed.. not sure if i lost any friends, but i havent noticed.. so im good icon_biggrin.gif.

    when i came out to my parents, they both freaked, my dad didnt talk to me till the next day and told me he loved me.. my mom and i went to the mall the next day and she was already picking boyfriends out for me.. haha.

    congrats! its the best feeling in the world.. being who you are without trying to hide it from those you love.
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    Jun 27, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
    I can feel the elation and relief in your post. good for you!
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    Jun 28, 2011 2:49 AM GMT
    i told christine from work today too, she was cool as hell bout it, she always had suspicions, she kept askin me detailed girlfriend questions i could never answer, was pretty funny. it definitely feels good to get it over with, but every time i do its scary as hell, i hope to be done with it by tomorrow night, pretty sure it'll b ok, the best was the best was my roomate, "hey wake up, i'm gay, BYE!" lmao he made fun of me all night last night for that shit.
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    Jun 28, 2011 2:54 AM GMT
    congrats buddy
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    Jun 28, 2011 3:05 AM GMT
    Congrats dude! That's an awesome story!
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    Jun 28, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    So happy for you icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 28, 2011 3:18 AM GMT
    Lol, another godparent! (which means you're a Fairy Godfather!) icon_wink.gif

    Fairy Godfathers as well,


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