Edward22 saidI am actually a real nice person despite what others think of me as being not so nice and apparently whenever you tell someone that your not interested in them or dating of that matter they continue to be persistent. Has anyone ever experienced this are knew how to let them down with kindness rather than being rude to them about it. As for me I am brutally honest and tell someone directly if i don't want them than i don't i just wish that they could get the hint rather than being empty headed
Edward, I once got involved with a guy that was sweet and handsome too. It was a thrill to have someone everyone thought so cool and good-looking giving me such strong attention. After about three rather intense weeks though I called it off as I could tell my feelings, once I got used to this, weren't going to last. We had a LOT of personal differences as well. Infatuation after all. He was very very devastated. He couldn't believe that I, me, Doug was calling it off as I was so wonderful etc.
Know what I did?
I persisted in seeing him every day for the next 5 weeks, and every day reasserted that it was over but here I was, to keep him company til he was over me, and I told him that. Over and over in conversations, pleasantly I spoke about how it would have been great if I had romantic feelings, but that I didn't. No sirreee Bob.
One day he laughed and told me to go away. I grinned and said I'd be back in an hour. He said maybe in a couple of days.
So why not tell us what your situation is? Did you date? How long? Was it just a suggestion of a date and you said no and this stranger is still in pursuit?