Hey you guys, I have a question germane to ' Real Jock Hotlisting ', please.

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    Jun 27, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    Hey there follow RJ'sicon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gif

    So ..my apologies ahead here providing this query has been asked then addressed before.icon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gif

    But is it considered passively rude or just outright deplorable Real Jock etiquette if someone random or not on Real Jock ' Hotlist's ' you and then you the person or the ' hotlistee' doesn't respond back with any return email at all. ZERO NOTTA ZILCH icon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_wink.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Is it kinda somewhat expected on Real Jock that most dudes don't respond with even a simple / quick: thank you or some other nicety response to the likeicon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif

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    Jun 28, 2011 12:15 AM GMT

    Since Hot Listing you is basically a compliment; one should at least send a quick thank you. I've been doing that. Most guys may not respond because they think of Hot Listing as a show of sexual interest, even if the person lives worlds a way. To them, I think, a reply would signify a mutual sexual attraction and they may not be digging the person.

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    Jun 28, 2011 12:17 AM GMT
    Are you saying you don't respond to people when they hotlist you? icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 28, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    I rarely do, because all you did was click a button. Plus, a lot of people will hotlist me to try and get me to start a convo with them, and when I don't respond, they remove me. I've been hotlisted and removed by the same person six times. If you want to try and talk to me spit it out, stop being such a vagina. icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 28, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidI rarely do, because all you did was click a button. Plus, a lot of people will hotlist me to try and get me to start a convo with them, and when I don't respond, they remove me. I've been hotlisted and removed by the same person six times. If you want to try and talk to me spit it out, stop being such a vagina. icon_confused.gif



    I agree 100%. I do NOT feel it necessary to thank someone for hotlisting me. The hot list is for YOU, not the other person. The fact that they get a notification that they were hotlisted is beside the point. I also find a lot of guys will hot list me as a way of starting a conversation, but I don't respond to passive-aggressive tactics. If you want to start a conversation, grow some balls and say hello. And for God's sake, don't "buddy list" me if we've never spoken!
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    Jun 28, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidAre you saying you don't respond to people when they hotlist you? icon_eek.gif



    Well Paulster', firstly, not that many have or do ' hotlist ' me, manicon_idea.gificon_wink.gif

    I reckon I'm juss to foul and visually repugnant for most Realjockers, on hereicon_rolleyes.gif

    To be fair, yet candid; most Realjockers' don't find me remotely ' hotlistable ', at all. Its' just a part of my reality really. No bigg here, honestly.


    Secondly, if you were honing in on whether or not I respond to most if not all guys who ' hotlist ' me?, ohhh well then,yes I do; or at the very least try to icon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif

    But, I do it as a matter of a personal thing, to tell ya the truth. Not to say theres' been a few in where I accidentally never got around in emailing a ' thank you ' back their way,icon_idea.gif you knowicon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gif


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    Jun 28, 2011 1:01 AM GMT
    Iron_Casanova said
    Since Hot Listing you is basically a compliment; one should at least send a quick thank you. I've been doing that. Most guys may not respond because they think of Hot Listing as a show of sexual interest, even if the person lives worlds a way. To them, I think, a reply would signify a mutual sexual attraction and they may not be digging the person.


    This is the very reason that I have asked before hotlisting, to avoid that awkward assumption of sexual interest. But then again, I have a fairly cerebral definition of 'hot'; I hotlist people based on what they've written on the forums, not their appearance.
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    Jun 28, 2011 1:22 AM GMT
    You should expect to receive back what you put into something. I'm not going to compose a personal message because someone clicked a button. If you write me a message, I'll write you one back.
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    Jun 28, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    I don't think it's necessary to respond to them, but I always send a quick "Thank you!" anyways just to be polite.
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    Jun 28, 2011 2:02 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidI rarely do, because all you did was click a button. Plus, a lot of people will hotlist me to try and get me to start a convo with them, and when I don't respond, they remove me. I've been hotlisted and removed by the same person six times. If you want to try and talk to me spit it out, stop being such a vagina. icon_confused.gif


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    Jun 28, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    Definition of the Hot List and Buddy List features (according to my viewpoint)

    The Hot List is merely a way for you to keep track of the guys you find hot. Think of it as a "things to do list." In this case it would be more of a "things to eventually fuck or date" list. The Hot List is for YOU. The other person will receive an email notifying him he's been hot listed, however this is not the same thing as a conversation. He has no moral or social obligation to send you a thank you card or flowers for bestowing your approval upon him.

    The Buddy List is just what it implies. You only Buddy List someone whom you've talked to at least once. It's also a way of keeping track of people, but if you Buddy List AND Hot List everyone they kind of lose their meaning.
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    Jun 28, 2011 4:38 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidI rarely do, because all you did was click a button. Plus, a lot of people will hotlist me to try and get me to start a convo with them, and when I don't respond, they remove me. I've been hotlisted and removed by the same person six times. If you want to try and talk to me spit it out, stop being such a vagina. icon_confused.gif





    ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ That's reassuring... I suppose when you see somebody out in public somewhere that's ' hot as fuck ', or ' not so hot as fuck 'and he just ' clicked his eyelid ' I.e - winked his eye - ( ' comparable analogy ' ) to the ' clicking the ' add to hotlist button ', because really all he did was just ' wink his eye ' in your diection, thus not deserving of any return? . And, its' soo true 'KardioKing'.. you're soo right, his energy or other dudes energy couldn't and can't be spent in other areas of life other than winking in real life public, or hotlisting on realjock cyber world, guys don't take extra energy or time to "click" that good 'ole button or "wink" that good 'ole eyeball because it really is comparable to doing absolutely nothing worth anything at all. So ergo, none of which ought to be credited or merited at all really, and its better for us to move on through our realjock rounds 'cause we certainly wouldn't want any unwanted contemplations on the receiving or hotlisters' part, for the possibly / potentially construing of a wink or realjock hotlisting made when sentimental feelings and emotions are N O T shared between (said) party's. H O W W I L L T H E Y E V E R B E A R icon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 28, 2011 6:46 AM GMT
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    KardioKing saidI rarely do, because all you did was click a button. Plus, a lot of people will hotlist me to try and get me to start a convo with them, and when I don't respond, they remove me. I've been hotlisted and removed by the same person six times. If you want to try and talk to me spit it out, stop being such a vagina. icon_confused.gif





    ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ That's reassuring... I suppose when you see somebody out in public somewhere that's ' hot as fuck ', or ' not so hot as fuck 'and he just ' clicked his eyelid ' I.e - winked his eye - ( ' comparable analogy ' ) to the ' clicking the ' add to hotlist button ', because really all he did was just ' wink his eye ' in your diection, thus not deserving of any return? . And, its' soo true 'KardioKing'.. you're soo right, his energy or other dudes energy couldn't and can't be spent in other areas of life other than winking in real life public, or hotlisting on realjock cyber world, guys don't take extra energy or time to "click" that good 'ole button or "wink" that good 'ole eyeball because it really is comparable to doing absolutely nothing worth anything at all. So ergo, none of which ought to be credited or merited at all really, and its better for us to move on through our realjock rounds 'cause we certainly wouldn't want any unwanted contemplations on the receiving or hotlisters' part, for the possibly / potentially construing of a wink or realjock hotlisting made when sentimental feelings and emotions are N O T shared between (said) party's. H O W W I L L T H E Y E V E R B E A R icon_idea.gificon_exclaim.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    icon_confused.gif Erm... K.
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    Jun 28, 2011 6:52 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    Salutay21 saidTL;DR

    icon_confused.gif Erm... K.


    He's high.
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    Jun 28, 2011 8:00 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]FearTheFall said[/cite]
    KardioKing said
    Salutay21 saidTL;DR

    icon_confused.gif Erm... K.


    He's high.[/quote]



    Uh huh... yeaat yeaat... .


    ^^^ Not any more loaded than what you dudes dish out in this and among other similar threads, to the like.


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