Why is a good man hard to find????

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    Jun 28, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    Well I have decided to be more open minded about who I dated cause all my friends say that the reason why im still single is that im too picky. Well ive got to amit that is kinda true lol. So ive decided to take a trip with my bff to the barbados cause one reason hes getting married and two I wanted to go bf hunting. Im mainly attracted to middle eastern/arab guys, or south asian guys. So I dated and dated and time after time there all the same they only want one thing and thats sex.

    I know sex is regular in some of yall lives but im still a virgin. Im going to wait till I find the right guy first. The reason why my friends say that im picky is cause I have a list of things that I dnt want in a guy ill give you a few. You cant be too old, you cant be a pushover, not shallow, cocky, stupid (I like smart guys) , judgemental, racist, and if you cant stand on your two feet and dnt have a job please dnt try to talk to me cause I dnt want a guy who doesnt have a job icon_smile.gif (huge turnoff). The list goes on why I cant find a guy who luv me for me and not lookin for sex all the time. Even in my realjock email guy ask me too meet them at a hotel.

    First of all im not a hoe soo dnt come at me like that and secound of all I dnt know wat u have or what kind of person you are. Maby I was not made to be in a relationship with anyone thats what im startin to think now. I been through soo much games it doesnt make any sence. Im the obly one out my group of friends who is still a virgin how lame is that??? Am so happy for my friend that hes getting married. Im not jealous or hatin but I want that too. Am I the only person who is going through this!?!?


    Btw if u want to know me better or have any questions email me I want bite icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 28, 2011 2:48 AM GMT
    Am I the only one who read "why is a hard man good to find?". Yea I'm a perv.
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    Jun 28, 2011 2:59 AM GMT
    Lol thanks icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 28, 2011 3:33 AM GMT
    Chainers saidAm I the only one who read "why is a hard man good to find?". Yea I'm a perv.
    Yeah but hard men are a dime a dozen. Well actually more like fifteen cents.
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    Jun 28, 2011 4:36 AM GMT


    Some guys have sex at the beginning because for them it establishes that sex is copacetic and so more is possible.

    Huge however (however, lol), it's up to you how comfortable you feel, because both have to feel comfortable, not just one.
    This I think determines how far you go, whether it's just cuddling in underwear the first night together (like we did and Bill thought that was going really far; too sweet) or a little fondling to even more depending on the couple and their personal dynamics.

    Do what's comfortable for you. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug

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    Jun 28, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    Men are pigs. You just have to find the cleanest one and who is willing to be clean. icon_wink.gif