Seatown21 saidWhen you are dating a girl or in the past, have you told her you were into guys? What was the reaction? How far into the relationship before you have told them?
There is no set formula like "talk about it by the third date" - it always just comes up when it does. The outcome of staying together (not written to be inherently good or bad) in my experience is much more likely the longer you wait - since some real feelings can develop, rather than on a first date where a simple "peace out girlscout" lets her go find something else without any feelings of remorse
I have never had a bad reaction like getting a drink thrown in my face or getting yelled at in a quiet restaurant. It just generally leads into a calm conversation and we figure out where to go from there.