Hard to find fit or muscle younger guys that like older fit guys in Illinois

  • topdog1969

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    Jun 28, 2011 6:52 PM GMT
    Am I crazy? LOL the only younger guys I'm finding and meeting are twinks, very lean, boyish types. They are great guys but not what I'm attracted to.
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    Jun 28, 2011 8:51 PM GMT
    I might be considered the offender, but I know exactly what you mean haha
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    Jun 28, 2011 10:55 PM GMT
    You will need to become fitter than you think you are to attract the ones you think you deserve.
  • Neurons

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    Jun 28, 2011 10:57 PM GMT
    What about fit or muscle guys your own age? icon_cool.gif
  • shawn06

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    Jun 28, 2011 11:20 PM GMT
    Honestly not to be an ass but a skinny twink wants a bigger muscle man even if he is older. While a young muscular guy is gonna go for someone his own age because it is really not that difficult for them to get an attractive young guy. They are allowed to be more picky so older guys are very rarely on their radar.

    You should be finding attractive men your own age or not be looking to far down, otherwise you will only get what you don't want. I am confused as to why older men just can't settle for someone who is around their age and have to constantly be on the search for someone who is frankly out of their league.
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    Jun 28, 2011 11:21 PM GMT
    Young muscular guy gets to pick, and he's not going to pick a much older dude in most cases
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    Jun 28, 2011 11:21 PM GMT
    bachian saidYou will need to become fitter than you think you are to attract the ones you think you deserve.


    Haha. This ^
  • Vaughn

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    Jun 28, 2011 11:32 PM GMT
    topdog1969 saidAm I crazy? LOL the only younger guys I'm finding and meeting are twinks, very lean, boyish types. They are great guys but not what I'm attracted to.


    I attract a lot of "older" "fit" guys and "older" muscular guys. If you plan on being picky you'll have to go for to extreme of fit... If I'm going to do anything with an older guy they'd have to be huge. Size is my thing (I don't mean fat). From what I observe in people my age they tend to feel similarly in whatever sense attracts them to other people. You may also want to consider trying to see older fit guys yourself.
  • SFjock

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    Jun 28, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
    yeah im definitely not lean/twinkish.......haha just sayin
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    Jun 29, 2011 12:00 AM GMT
    bachian saidYou will need to become fitter than you think you are to attract the ones you think you deserve.
    ^this
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    Jun 29, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    shawn06 saidHonestly not to be an ass but a skinny twink wants a bigger muscle man even if he is older. While a young muscular guy is gonna go for someone his own age because it is really not that difficult for them to get an attractive young guy. They are allowed to be more picky so older guys are very rarely on their radar.

    You should be finding attractive men your own age or not be looking to far down, otherwise you will only get what you don't want. I am confused as to why older men just can't settle for someone who is around their age and have to constantly be on the search for someone who is frankly out of their league.


    THIS x >9000
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    Jun 29, 2011 7:44 AM GMT
    TheKrisPandemic saidWhat about fit or muscle guys your own age? icon_cool.gif


    Haha! I was going to say that. icon_lol.gificon_idea.gif
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    Jun 29, 2011 8:05 AM GMT
    bachian saidYou will need to become fitter than you think you are to attract the ones you think you deserve.


    This is what I love about real jock the brutal honesty. Don't expect to get the Brad pitts or matthew mccaungney (however he spells his name) of this world while looking like the adam sandlers. Luckily you might find one but in the gay world it has a lot to do with looks. They say looks can't get you through life but it can get you far.
  • bad_wolf

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    Jun 29, 2011 8:21 AM GMT
    Just the general sucky nature of life if you ask me; with all the variations in people, appearance, types and preferences, a compatible match might be on the other side of the world and you'll both die alone having never met.
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    Jun 29, 2011 8:22 AM GMT
    SexyN3rd saidYoung muscular guy gets to pick, and he's not going to pick a much older dude in most cases


    This +1,000,000.....face it you are getting old so date someone your own age. I will never get older gays always chasing after the younger ones....personally I don't want to be 65 retiring when my partner is 85 and I have to change his diapers.
  • bad_wolf

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    Jun 29, 2011 8:27 AM GMT
    Asuguy2005 said
    SexyN3rd saidYoung muscular guy gets to pick, and he's not going to pick a much older dude in most cases


    This +1,000,000.....face it you are getting old so date someone your own age. I will never get older gays always chasing after the younger ones....personally I don't want to be 65 retiring when my partner is 85 and I have to change his diapers.


    Not necessarily true there are young who prefer older and vice versa and would look over guys their own age.
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    Jun 29, 2011 11:16 AM GMT
    They're not into hookups.
    (and neither am I)
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    Jun 29, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    topdog1969 saidAm I crazy? LOL the only younger guys I'm finding and meeting are twinks, very lean, boyish types. They are great guys but not what I'm attracted to.


    You are possibly now reaping what you sowed when you were younger yourself.

    If back then in your youth you eschewed older fit guys (40's + ) why on earth would you expect todays younger fit guys to think any different than you did back then
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    Jun 29, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    CHIdude saidThey're not into hookups.
    (and neither am I)


    ^^^^ This. Nothing more "unattractive" than when an older muscle guy starts shaking his ass all over you like hes hot shit and just wants to hook up. icon_rolleyes.gif Slutty-ness is unattractive, no matter what age.
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    Jun 30, 2011 1:26 AM GMT
    ChiAEJock said
    CHIdude saidThey're not into hookups.
    (and neither am I)


    ^^^^ This. Nothing more "unattractive" than when an older muscle guy starts shaking his ass all over you like hes hot shit and just wants to hook up. icon_rolleyes.gif Slutty-ness is unattractive, no matter what age.


    My dude posting something!!!! I mean, what? Forget I called him my dude.
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    Jun 30, 2011 1:26 AM GMT
    ChiAEJock said
    CHIdude saidThey're not into hookups.
    (and neither am I)


    ^^^^ This. Nothing more "unattractive" than when an older muscle guy starts shaking his ass all over you like hes hot shit and just wants to hook up. icon_rolleyes.gif Slutty-ness is unattractive, no matter what age.


    no you have to be cool and let them come to you - thats the way - nice and easy!
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    Jun 30, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    NJDewd said
    ChiAEJock said
    CHIdude saidThey're not into hookups.
    (and neither am I)


    ^^^^ This. Nothing more "unattractive" than when an older muscle guy starts shaking his ass all over you like hes hot shit and just wants to hook up. icon_rolleyes.gif Slutty-ness is unattractive, no matter what age.


    no you have to be cool and let them come to you - thats the way - nice and easy!


    That's what she said.
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    Jul 05, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    I undergo the same problem, however mine is older guys who are not in shape and when I am looking for guys in my age range they are twinkish... only time will tell i guess
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    Jul 05, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    They are already partnered, still going to school, not on online dating sites due to not being out and/or conservative, not out at their age, and plainly are probably straight and gay-for-pay but people still pay to watch their porn, supporting this image that doesn't exist in reality.
  • Spiritreaver

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    Jul 05, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    muscjckguy saidI undergo the same problem, however mine is older guys who are not in shape and when I am looking for guys in my age range they are twinkish... only time will tell i guess
    Yeah I have a similar problem, well it's not a problem, just how it is. I would like to date more muscular, fit, guys but I've run into very few younger guys in OKC that fit this. If they do, they're taken or in the closet. OKC is twink city. Not that twinks bother me, I just wanna try something different!

    I think I'm gonna open up to older guys, I've spoken with quite a few big guys in their 40s to 50s, all very sweet and serious as well. Also the mean age of guys I chat with on RJ is probably somewhere between 35 and 40. Great people. icon_smile.gif

    All I ask for is a guy I can workout, wrestle, cook, and cuddle with. icon_smile.gif