People that ask to do Webcam J/O then get pissed when you refuse

  • TallGWMvballe...

    Posts: 1925

    Apr 18, 2008 7:44 PM GMT
    Hi guys,

    Here is the exact text of an IM sent to me today.
    Comments please.



    "TallGWMvballer: Hello
    TallGWMvballer: Do I know you ?
    TallGWMvballer: Your profile has no picture or description
    alik: no... deleted
    alik: do u have a cam?
    alik: i know u r terribly horny
    TallGWMvballer: Yes do you ?
    alik: yep
    alik: office now....
    alik: see what i can do
    TallGWMvballer: a liitle horny yes but about to leave for a
    shoot (Television)
    TallGWMvballer: and I am seing my BF tonight
    alik: come on
    alik: don't be shy
    TallGWMvballer: I am not shy
    alik: come on
    alik: turn it on
    TallGWMvballer: where is yours>
    TallGWMvballer: ?
    alik: collegue around
    alik: turn yours on
    TallGWMvballer: It diesn't work on this system
    TallGWMvballer: I tried
    alik:
    TallGWMvballer: sorry
    TallGWMvballer: besides, I would not show you my cam if
    you won't show me yours at the same time.
    alik: fuck u
    TallGWMvballer: WOW so hostile
    TallGWMvballer: I am being nice
    TallGWMvballer: Why so rude and nasty?
    TallGWMvballer: ?"

    Of course there was no reply.
  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16311

    Apr 18, 2008 7:50 PM GMT
    I just laughed at the above exchange... I get them almost daily and I just say I don't have a cam. I see someone, its inappropriate, but even if I were single I wouldn't cam for sex at all.

    I have had men here turn on their cam just to show what they look like.. several instances, a guy in Poland and one in Greece.... several in the US. I don't care about that, usually they look precisely like their pictures...

    One that really made me laugh. The guy wanted to cam, but demanded to see my private pic. I told him, hey its nothing frontal... he said he wouldn't cam unless he saw me totally naked first.....

    I told him to hit up some other sucker...

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    Apr 18, 2008 7:53 PM GMT
    That guy was desperate. Yikes.
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    Apr 18, 2008 9:04 PM GMT
    What strikes me the most about this entire exchange is how short alik's comments are. "office now. . ."

    "see what I can do." It's like the internet encourages us to speak in a primitive manner. Eek. I don't know if I could handle that.
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    Apr 18, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    so many guys tell me how horny they are. i always tell them that i am hungry. they dont know how to respond to that.

    and surprisingly i havent gotten any gross replies yet.


    tim
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    Apr 26, 2008 7:49 PM GMT
    you're hungry...huh???icon_wink.gif...lol J/K...I love how ppl ignore the part of my profile that says i WILL NOT get naked 4 them on cam. In the beginning i'd try to steer them towards real conversation but now i just tell then i dont have a cam and move on.
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    Apr 26, 2008 9:06 PM GMT
    I will NOT cam. Not now, at least.

    And I will NEVER get naked on cam.
  • GQjock

    Posts: 11649

    Apr 27, 2008 11:41 AM GMT
    Web cam sex is always a let down


    There's a def hierarchy to all this stuff
    from the bottom up there's

    Phone sex... boring as hell
    Ooh...ahhh and what did you have for dinner?

    Web Camming... all the visual stimuli with none of the payoff icon_cry.gif

    Car sex... Dude, you just poked me in the eye

    Anonymous internet sex... Always a crap shoot when you open the door
    Did you take those pictures with a Civil War camera?
    During the Civil War??

    Sex after a night at the club... you're always surprised in the morning that it was THAT dark and you were THAT drunk last night icon_eek.gif

    A pick up at the beach... Seeing is believing icon_cool.gif
    A pick up at the grocery store .... I see you're into ahem - healthy eating

    And the top of the list is sex after a successful date
    ... something to always shoot for icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2008 4:51 AM GMT
    I'm surprised you even went that far into conversation... I usually just close or block people like that after the first two sentences.

    They say something like "u got cam?" (which isn't even a freakin' sentence...morons) and they're done. These are the people that leer from across a bar or club. The type that I would love to throw a drink in their face given the chance. icon_evil.gif

    Sorry... don't meant to rant. Guess I'm just sick and tired of putting up with the pigs out there.
  • MikePhilPerez

    Posts: 4357

    Jul 06, 2008 12:23 PM GMT
    TallGWMvballer saidHi guys,

    Here is the exact text of an IM sent to me today.
    Comments please.



    "TallGWMvballer: Hello
    TallGWMvballer: Do I know you ?
    TallGWMvballer: Your profile has no picture or description
    alik: no... deleted
    alik: do u have a cam?
    alik: i know u r terribly horny
    TallGWMvballer: Yes do you ?
    alik: yep
    alik: office now....
    alik: see what i can do
    TallGWMvballer: a liitle horny yes but about to leave for a
    shoot (Television)
    TallGWMvballer: and I am seing my BF tonight
    alik: come on
    alik: don't be shy
    TallGWMvballer: I am not shy
    alik: come on
    alik: turn it on
    TallGWMvballer: where is yours>
    TallGWMvballer: ?
    alik: collegue around
    alik: turn yours on
    TallGWMvballer: It diesn't work on this system
    TallGWMvballer: I tried
    alik:
    TallGWMvballer: sorry
    TallGWMvballer: besides, I would not show you my cam if
    you won't show me yours at the same time.
    alik: fuck u
    TallGWMvballer: WOW so hostile
    TallGWMvballer: I am being nice
    TallGWMvballer: Why so rude and nasty?
    TallGWMvballer: ?"

    Of course there was no reply.



    In my opinion you lead him on a bit, so I'm not surprised at his response. If you are into this kind of thing you have to expect this kind of reaction.


    Mike
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    Jul 06, 2008 12:30 PM GMT
    GQjock saidWeb cam sex is always a let down


    There's a def hierarchy to all this stuff
    from the bottom up there's

    Phone sex... boring as hell
    Ooh...ahhh and what did you have for dinner?

    Web Camming... all the visual stimuli with none of the payoff icon_cry.gif

    Car sex... Dude, you just poked me in the eye

    Anonymous internet sex... Always a crap shoot when you open the door
    Did you take those pictures with a Civil War camera?
    During the Civil War??

    Sex after a night at the club... you're always surprised in the morning that it was THAT dark and you were THAT drunk last night icon_eek.gif

    A pick up at the beach... Seeing is believing icon_cool.gif
    A pick up at the grocery store .... I see you're into ahem - healthy eating

    And the top of the list is sex after a successful date
    ... something to always shoot for icon_wink.gif


    EXCELLENT.....
  • TallGWMvballe...

    Posts: 1925

    Jul 08, 2008 7:16 AM GMT
    Thanks guys for all your thoughts; in retrospect I should have shut him off sooner... my bad. I am just not used to that kind of crap. I DO webcam with friends around the world on i-chat and Skype...but it is to see their FACE while we talk.
    not really into anonymous- just see your dick- web J/O
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    Jul 08, 2008 12:11 PM GMT
    This use to happen to me a lot. I would get the typical "Hi, how are you?" than they would ask "Do you have a cam?". They know I did because it was in my profile. Some got really nasty when I wouldnt cam with them. They would say they are horny and need me to cum. If I ever was that horny I would call my boyfriend, j/o myself or just watch some porn and j/o. I dont need a cam to do it. This is why I unplugged my cam. Now it is collecting dust.
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    Feb 10, 2009 1:58 PM GMT
    I love to chat and cam... just dont like some of the rudeness.... for the most part guys are cool
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    Feb 10, 2009 2:26 PM GMT
    There are about a dozen guys on RJ that I´d turn my cam on for, and they are ones I´ve spoken to on IM or know from the forums (I had fun the other day pulling faces at Sedative for an hour whilst making him listen to my music. He is now scared of me muahahaha). Almost always it´s face only, though if I am feeling frisky I might take my top off. It´s not like you haven´t seen what´s underneath before icon_rolleyes.gif

    I have NO time for "do u cam" messages.

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    Feb 10, 2009 11:01 PM GMT
    GQjock saidWeb cam sex is always a let down


    There's a def hierarchy to all this stuff
    from the bottom up there's

    Phone sex... boring as hell
    Ooh...ahhh and what did you have for dinner?

    Web Camming... all the visual stimuli with none of the payoff icon_cry.gif

    Car sex... Dude, you just poked me in the eye

    Anonymous internet sex... Always a crap shoot when you open the door
    Did you take those pictures with a Civil War camera?
    During the Civil War??

    Sex after a night at the club... you're always surprised in the morning that it was THAT dark and you were THAT drunk last night icon_eek.gif

    A pick up at the beach... Seeing is believing icon_cool.gif
    A pick up at the grocery store .... I see you're into ahem - healthy eating

    And the top of the list is sex after a successful date
    ... something to always shoot for icon_wink.gif


    you forgot the most fulfilling sex...

    sex with someone you love. icon_smile.gif
  • Delivis

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    Feb 10, 2009 11:05 PM GMT
    This is why i have my IMing option off all the time. I think this is why most people do as well.
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:26 AM GMT
    You should have told him you need a credit card number to verify age. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 6:03 AM GMT
    So he wanted you to turn on yours but he wouldn't because his colleague was around? That really makes no sense at all.
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    Feb 26, 2009 11:43 AM GMT
    Here´s another from today

    Person: Hey sexy
    Good body

    Me: Good morning

    Person: I´m hot

    Me: Take a cold shower
    Bye.
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    Feb 26, 2009 4:51 PM GMT
    want to see me live check me out on this URL


    http://www.mywebcam.euro.tm