The gay expectations out of sex

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    Jun 30, 2011 5:55 PM GMT
    During pride week here in NY I met a lot of guys who wanted to hopk up with me. I was dating someone at the time and I kindly turned them down.

    But since I'm new to this whole dating thing what is it that guys get from just hooking up? It just seems like it would be a painful experience and I would rather get the opinions here first b4 I try it for myself.
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    Jun 30, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    RemyLoV said... what is it that guys get from just hooking up?
    Sex, occasionally a friend with benefits which lowers [but doesn't always stop] the need to hookup for sex.
    Ya see, sex is a biological necessity. Some people prefer emotions of love to be involved, with only one person, etc. But going too long without it is unhealthy.

    Basically, sometimes ya just gotta go get a nut with someone else because furiously masturbating 100 times a day gets old.
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    Jun 30, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    Some people just like sex, I don't think its much more complicated than that.

    I'ts not a painful experience, but you may or may not like it. And you can't really just hook-up once and be like zomg this is terrible when really it could have just been that guy icon_razz.gif

    I tried it a few times and so far I don't really like it. I'd rather be single or in a relationship. Because if you just hook-up people always have this weird expectation that you are hooking up because you can't get a "real" boyfriend. I mean come on now icon_razz.gif


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    Jun 30, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    paulflexes said

    Basically, sometimes ya just gotta go get a nut with someone else because furiously masturbating 100 times a day gets old.


    ^^This.
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    Jul 01, 2011 4:00 AM GMT
    Uh, okayicon_neutral.gif Not exactly the response I was expecting but I understand where you guys are coming from. I don't like the idea of just kicking my rocks off with just anyone, but it's understandable as to why ppl do it. Thanks again.
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    Jul 02, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    I used to hook up because I found it exciting and I was exploring my sexuality but I got to a point (after like 10ish guys or so not 100s just an FYI icon_lol.gif )where I wanted more than just a guy who wants to fuck me and that's it, now I want someone who cares for me blah blah all that corny stuff LOL
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    Jul 03, 2011 10:52 AM GMT
    Some people just need sex.
    Hooking up never really appealed to me all that much, especially since most the guys who wanted to wanted to do it bareback and I don't do that. I think having a friend with benefits is more comfortable because you don't have to worry about the expectations your hook up would want.

    In the end, it just depends on the person..