Girls trying to fix you up

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    Jul 01, 2011 12:00 PM GMT
    whenever girls try to "help" me meet guys, they get it SSSOOOO wrong! Bless their hearts. My ex-wife introduces me to gay guys all fo the time and while I have made some nice friendships out of it, she doesn't get my tastes at all. AT ALL. LOLLLL....

    Should I just be blunt and say, "babe, you aint no Millionaire Matchmaker" or should I indulge her? She is trying to be sweet. I just worry that she will hurt someone's feelings.

    Can anyone relate?
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    Jul 01, 2011 12:09 PM GMT
    Well, what are your tastes? Do you tell her what you're looking for?

    Most women think that a gay man will like any other gay man, for some reason.
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    Jul 01, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    Relate...Oh yeah. My sisters seamed to believe mutual love of cock is all that is required for a match to be made.
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    Jul 01, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    Cause women think we are looking for the same things they are and since the gay men she knows aren't trying to jump in the sack with her she thinks they are all great people and since secretly she'd probably give her left fallopian tube to have a guy like one of those gay men, she thinks you'd love him too.

    Thankfully the women in my life know they don't try to set me up with guys icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 01, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    Tanker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Jul 01, 2011 2:06 PM GMT
    Women's tastes are far less particular - my single straight female friends are forever asking me if I could set them up with any straight men. Their only requirements are that they be single with a pulse.
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    Jul 01, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidWomen's tastes are far less particular - my single straight female friends are forever asking me if I could set them up with any straight men. Their only requirements are that they be single with a pulse.

    Thats high standards, I know a lot of gay men who only ask for the pulse.
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    Jul 01, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidTanker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Jul 01, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidWomen's tastes are far less particular - my single straight female friends are forever asking me if I could set them up with any straight men. Their only requirements are that they be single with a pulse.


    after a certain age, women realize they have been too picky in the past and all the 'good ones' are already taken
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    Jul 01, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Thats high standards, I know a lot of gay men who only ask for the pulse.


    I know for some people, pulse is optional icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 01, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    I think the problem is most girls cling to GAY guys, and vise versa. So while I like dick, I am not interested in flamboyant girly guys, which typically end up hanging out with girls. So when a girl friend tells me about some dude, it always ends up that he is too feminine for me.


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    Jul 01, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidwhenever girls try to "help" me meet guys, they get it SSSOOOO wrong! Bless their hearts. My ex-wife introduces me to gay guys all fo the time and while I have made some nice friendships out of it, she doesn't get my tastes at all. AT ALL. LOLLLL....

    Should I just be blunt and say, "babe, you aint no Millionaire Matchmaker" or should I indulge her? She is trying to be sweet. I just worry that she will hurt someone's feelings.

    Can anyone relate?


    When are you gonna get introduced to me?
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    Jul 01, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    I thought this was gonna be a thread about girls trying to dress you up like you're their personal Ken doll. Some of my female friends tell me all the time that I should have more fashion sense since I'm gay. Meh... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 01, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    There's a translation issue here:

    Women friends say "I know the PERFECT guy for you!"

    Women friends mean "Actually, now I think about it, you're the second gay guy I've met!"

    I love them to bits - but it's a consistent pattern :-)
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    Jul 01, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    shutoman saidThere's a translation issue here:

    Women friends say "I know the PERFECT guy for you!"

    Women friends mean "Actually, now I think about it, you're the second gay guy I've met!"

    I love them to bits - but it's a consistent pattern :-)


    Thats because for women, gay men are perfect.
  • NerdLifter

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    Jul 01, 2011 5:48 PM GMT
    I think it's so sweet when they try, but most of them fall into the: "hey he's gay, that's all you need in order for you two to be perfect for each other, right?" trap.

    My guy/girl friends and family are all guilty of this. But, I'm lucky as shit to have people this openly accepting. I count myself supremely lucky to be living now and not 20 years ago where this would be unheard of.
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    Jul 01, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    One of my best friends and I have the exact same taste in guys so she knows exactly what I want, in fact, we always fight over her boyfriend and it's pretty funny cause he'll cuddle with me whenever I ask him too icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 01, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    CJ567 saidOne of my best friends and I have the exact same taste in guys so she knows exactly what I want, in fact, we always fight over her boyfriend and it's pretty funny cause he'll cuddle with me whenever I ask him too icon_razz.gif


    wuttttttt??? lol