Coming out

  • redrocker

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    Jul 01, 2011 4:21 PM GMT
    What is the best way to come out to family? If they are very against gay people.witch way would you go with and why? (1st way ) just come out and say it with no support ,Or ( the 2nd way ) leave a letter telling them what you feal and the reason why you are doing it this way ? Please let me know what you think so I can do it ASAP.
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    Jul 01, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    Is there one family memeber you relate to better than the others? Talk to him or her first, see how it goes. Do you have friends who know you're gay? You need some kind of support IMHO if you aren't sure how your family will react. Best of luck whichever course you take.
  • redrocker

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    Jul 01, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    antelope saidIs there one family memeber you relate to better than the others? Talk to him or her first, see how it goes. Do you have friends who know you're gay? You need some kind of support IMHO if you aren't sure how your family will react. Best of luck whichever course you take.
    they say that gay people should not come out.
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    Jul 01, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    hotredice saidWhat is the best way to come out to family?
    Invite your ex over for some nookie while your parents are away.
    Turn the music up too loud to hear if someone comes in.
    Continue having nookie till they come home early and walk in on you.

    Well, that's how I did it. icon_lol.gif
  • redrocker

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    Jul 01, 2011 10:23 PM GMT
    To bad my ex ONLEY wanted sex and I would never do it with him ever again.
  • redrocker

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    Aug 12, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    So I came out July 23,2012 I came out on Facebook so I feal so happy and got a lot of good friends
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    Aug 12, 2012 1:24 AM GMT
    hotredice saidSo I came out July 23,2012 I came out on Facebook so I feal so happy and got a lot of good friends


    That's good to hear, how did it go with your family?
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    Aug 12, 2012 1:26 AM GMT
    hotredice saidSo I came out July 23,2012 I came out on Facebook so I feal so happy and got a lot of good friends

    Glad that it has worked out well. I am happy for you. How has your family taken it?
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    Aug 12, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    Congrats! =D

    How exactly did it play out? Most surprising/expected things to occur?
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    Aug 12, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    Well when I came out I just walked in there room said I'm gay and walked out then after that just forced them to accept it so far so good for me but not all people are lucky like me and can make their family accept them like I can. Out as of 02/04/2010
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    Aug 12, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    how should we know the best way for you to come out to your family you dumb bitch? we don't know them or their ideals or what they're like.

    stop being a over-dramatic bitch and just be honest.

    jfc, why do people think that "coming out" has to be such a dramatic event? it only is if you make it one.

    rme...icon_rolleyes.gif