Why are black guys so racist??

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    Jul 04, 2011 2:53 AM GMT
    What do black guys have against white and other nonblack guys? Too many gay blacks seem so closed minded and don't like dating (even fucking) outside of their race.

    Why??
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    Jul 04, 2011 7:02 AM GMT
    oh man these threads always terrify me!

    I'm afraid I can't answer your question, assuming you aren't just looking for a full out internet war. I can only speak for myself and have to admit that I actually find most races attractive.

    I have been attracted to black guys, white guys, hispanic, asian, indian, arabic, and the list just goes on and on. Everyone is different though.

    and whereas I can understand that certain cultural and personal themes may play into someones sexual and romantic preferences when they grow up, I think if people stop confusing a skin color with hobbies and interest and personality, they'd find a lot of amazing men they normally didn't have access to.

    Many people are surprised by my personality and hobbies/interests when they get to know me. Its nothing special about me, its just the fact that assume they know who I am by simply looking at me. They try to generalize and define me off of small things that aren't guaranteed.

    Chances are those black guys that you're dealing with just feel more comfortable with their own race because they assume that other black guys have more in common with them. There is also the small chance that maybe they are more comfortable with other black men because people ask less questions. If they were a person that grew up around black people, never had friends of different races, it would look odd if suddenly they were always hanging out with a white guy. Assuming they are the discreet type/I don't want to obvious type of gay guys, then they'd definitely avoid anything that would lead to people asking questions.

    So there could be numerous reasons I guess, but as I stated earlier, I can only really speak for myself.



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    Jul 04, 2011 7:07 AM GMT
    i like all types of guys idk what you are talking about ... my exes are Arabic, white, and Latino and i never been with a black guy
    what the hell made you think that all black guys are racist

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    Jul 04, 2011 11:30 AM GMT
    Not everyone, but some of them
  • Neurons

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    Jul 04, 2011 12:34 PM GMT
    Funny, because my two ex's were Palestinian and Portuguese and my current is half white and half Viet.

    But the real question is, why do a lot of guys tell me they're not into black guys when I'm only looking for friends? The mystery!
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    Jul 04, 2011 2:27 PM GMT
    Umm..that's a strange comment. All of the black guys I know are pretty cool about dating a guy out of their race. It's white guys who tend to be pickier. Then again, I'm on Long Island...
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    Jul 04, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    OMG...I've date and been in relationships with black, asian and latino men..lasting over a year. But no I haven't dated or been in a relationship wuth a white dude. They can't relate to me or see where I'm coming from. They only see the mandingo dream/fling. And obviously this was written by I wht man. You don't understand cause your not black in america...and I see your nit trying to either. Just like I said before. You don't get iticon_evil.gif

    Plus it plenty or oreo cookies on this site and cities like nyc and La. That think their to good to date other black men....So stop bitching! It more "Carltons" on here then "Epps'"
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  • ohioguy12

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    Jul 04, 2011 7:55 PM GMT
    I thought the stereotype was that black guys liked white guys?

    But honestly I think people are too quick to lump black people together, when in fact everyones tastes are different.
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    Jul 04, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidI thought the stereotype was that black guys liked white guys?

    But honestly I think people are too quick to lump black people together, when in fact everyones tastes are different.


    This.
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    Jul 04, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    Real Jock is a website that attracts a larger share of blacks who are interested in whites, but there are far larger gay community/websites/forums that cater to black gays (which will go unnamed). I've visited the unnamed forum I've never read so much racism in my life!!!!!

    In general, gay blacks seem super racist and only like blacks! And Asians just straight up hate themselves!!

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    Jul 04, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    Um, personally I've found guys from every race attractive. I find white/asian guys attractive because they tend to look very different from me and that's usually pretty hot.
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    Jul 05, 2011 12:39 AM GMT
    some people have bad experiences and they attribute them to race or some vague description. I was once strongly advised to stay away from white boys because they're "nasty". naturally I experimented for myself and saw it wasn't always true. I've also heard people say they see it as white oppressing black, kinda threw me off when I heard that one.

    it's similar to white guys who prefer "only white/latinos, no offense" (really dislike when they apologize, condescending).

    But what someone said above is most accurate, it just depends on the person. If you want a black man (or any man) that doesn't want you because of color, then keep looking until someone bites.
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    Jul 05, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    What was the point of this thread even though i only date black men that don't mean i am racist? smdh
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    Jul 05, 2011 4:00 PM GMT
    Lame OP. I'm a WASP and I've dated black guys.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:07 AM GMT
    LOL Thats how it is around here man. I am the total opposite. After all my bad luck with black here, I REFUSE to date any...PERIOD. Everyone has there own preferences and so do I, so really can't argue much. Most guys like their own. For example, Muscle4muscle, Chub4chub, skinny4skinny. Get the picture? I am very sorry if this offends anyone but just going what I see, have seen and personal experinces.
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    Jul 06, 2011 1:17 AM GMT
    TheKrisPandemic saidFunny, because my two ex's were Palestinian and Portuguese and my current is half white and half Viet.

    But the real question is, why do a lot of guys tell me they're not into black guys when I'm only looking for friends? The mystery!


    Good post!
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:18 AM GMT
    this thread died prematurely.

    I want to see it live again. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
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    Dec 20, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    nycmafioso saidReal Jock is a website that attracts a larger share of blacks who are interested in whites, but there are far larger gay community/websites/forums that cater to black gays (which will go unnamed). I've visited the unnamed forum I've never read so much racism in my life!!!!!

    In general, gay blacks seem super racist and only like blacks! And Asians just straight up hate themselves!!



    icon_eek.gif there are gay black forums and sites?? please share!
  • ozhanSean

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    Dec 20, 2011 4:27 AM GMT
    I have been trying to date black guys for a while and havnt found one to date me yet... :-( I don't know about black guys being racist. I am only writing here because I figured there would be plenty of them on this tread! ;-P Hit me up!!!!!!!!!! LOL
  • Trepeat

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    Dec 20, 2011 4:47 AM GMT
    Same reason everyone else is so racist? icon_question.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    Damn, I would looooove to get some black in me : ))) haha

    this thread is stupid
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    Dec 20, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    fulldelight saidDamn, I would looooove to get some black in me : ))) haha

    this thread is stupid


    Indeed.

    Not the first part though icon_wink.gif