What's the Beefy dude looking for?

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    Jul 04, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    If you're into tall muscular beefy dudes? .... Is it easier to attract them looking that way or being the opposite?


    In hetero relationships a girl has qualities that are the opposite of the guy... I'm short, on the thinner side but athletic, I think I have more prettyboy features, but am not overly feminine nor overly masculine.

    Do the Muscle Men Tops of gaydom have anything they particularly go for in a potential partner?
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    Jul 04, 2011 11:31 AM GMT
    Not really, depend on personality
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    Jul 04, 2011 11:42 AM GMT
    Some big built guys go for skinny/slim guys, some go for other big built guys...just be who you are.
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    Jul 04, 2011 11:50 AM GMT
    I am muscle/beefy......I look into peoples personalities though....but am more attracted to toned gaysians, cause they are cuddly.....Total big spoon here......I like my guys masc too but not like butch I mean hey we are gay so you are gonna have gay moments. I don't have much experience dating though haha....I just hope my future hubby can cook me good meals. That was a random ramble.
  • rnch

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    Jul 04, 2011 12:18 PM GMT
    Pure saidSome big built guys go for skinny/slim guys, some go for other big built guys...just be who you are.



    QFT
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    My favorite type of man on earth - BEEFY!
    I would think they want someone that looks like them.
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    Thats what I like. but I tend to attract fat guys. I got hit on this weekend for the first time in years. both were easily 300lbs :rofl
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    eagleboy99 saidIf you're into tall muscular beefy dudes? .... Is it easier to attract them looking that way or being the opposite?


    In hetero relationships a girl has qualities that are the opposite of the guy... I'm short, on the thinner side but athletic, I think I have more prettyboy features, but am not overly feminine nor overly masculine.

    Do the Muscle Men Tops of gaydom have anything they particularly go for in a potential partner?


    Out of curiosity, if someone were to answer your question and say, "Yes, tall muscular beefy men are only into other tall muscular beefy men. They are not attracted to slimmer shorter softer men", what would you do differently in your life as a result?
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:38 PM GMT
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREOut of curiosity, if someone were to answer your question and say, "Yes, tall muscular beefy men are only into other tall muscular beefy men. They are not attracted to slimmer shorter softer men", what would you do differently in your life as a result?



    Very interesting question. I am curious to hear the answer too.
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    I like lean athletic smooth guys who are a bit smaller than me.
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:40 PM GMT
    Where is the beef?

    We need pics
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:43 PM GMT
    I think lean muscly is hot. I do tend to vibe with other tops my build tho...but dont usually date them.
  • ohioguy12

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    Jul 04, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    eagleboy99 said

    In hetero relationships a girl has qualities that are the opposite of the guy...


    I don't know exactly why, but hetero relationships are far different than homo relationships, but I know where you're coming from.
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    HavenJock80 saidWhere is the beef?

    We need pics


    Oh lord oh lord! Please pics!!!!!!!
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:48 PM GMT
    I always thought it's a general rule of thumb for gay men that we try to look like who/what they are attracted to. So I would think that beefy guys would tend to prefer other beefy guys. icon_question.gif
  • FredMG

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    Jul 04, 2011 5:49 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidThats what I like. but I tend to attract fat guys. I got hit on this weekend for the first time in years. both were easily 300lbs :rofl

    I'm Hitting on you ;) so hopefully a 230 lb guy is a bit of an ego boost ;)

    Happy 4th.

    But to reply to the OP. Big beefy dudes are just as random in what appeals to them as everybody else. I'm sure there's a big beefy dude out there for you, maybe check out bear411, not all of the "bears" are huge bellied tiara wearing pansy-asses.
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    Just do what you want and put yourself out there. If you want to be beefy, be beefy, if you want to be a fat slob... we don't recommend that here, but if you want to have the build of a cross-country runner, then do it. Just do whatever makes you happy and there are people of all body shapes that are attracted to people of all body shapes. It's true- I know I prefer a nice face over a nice body, regardless, but I also prefer a beefy guy with a football/strongman physique over a twink.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:01 PM GMT
    keepitclassy21 saidI am muscle/beefy......I look into peoples personalities though....but am more attracted to toned gaysians, cause they are cuddly.....Total big spoon here......I like my guys masc too but not like butch I mean hey we are gay so you are gonna have gay moments. I don't have much experience dating though haha....I just hope my future hubby can cook me good meals. That was a random ramble.


    exactly! I like the way this guy thinks.
  • KnuxNole

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    Jul 04, 2011 6:12 PM GMT
    SportingChance said
    eagleboy99 saidIf you're into tall muscular beefy dudes? .... Is it easier to attract them looking that way or being the opposite?


    In hetero relationships a girl has qualities that are the opposite of the guy... I'm short, on the thinner side but athletic, I think I have more prettyboy features, but am not overly feminine nor overly masculine.

    Do the Muscle Men Tops of gaydom have anything they particularly go for in a potential partner?


    Out of curiosity, if someone were to answer your question and say, "Yes, tall muscular beefy men are only into other tall muscular beefy men. They are not attracted to slimmer shorter softer men", what would you do differently in your life as a result?


    If I was told that, my answer would be absolutely nothing, cause changing myself to please others is something I have no respect for and look down on without hesitation.

    And I don't follow the rule of "we look like who we attract" since that makes zero sense to me at all. What I find attractive and who I go for has no reflection of me. Basically, I disregard what I look like at all in terms to who I would like dating-wise. My look is natural and born, so I don't wanna be a lowly shallow freak, since people who are shallow are utterly pathetic icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:16 PM GMT
    Bullwinklemoos saidJust do what you want and put yourself out there. If you want to be beefy, be beefy, if you want to be a fat slob... we don't recommend that here, but if you want to have the build of a cross-country runner, then do it. Just do whatever makes you happy and there are people of all body shapes that are attracted to people of all body shapes. It's true- I know I prefer a nice face over a nice body, regardless, but I also prefer a beefy guy with a football/strongman physique over a twink.


    Beefy guy with football physique, beefy guy with football physique!!!!!!!!
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
    I'm not " beefy " in my opinion more lean. But I personally am typically attracted to guys with the same type of physique. Though there are exceptions depending on personality and chemistry. I do however think its safe to say that guys that tend to be fit and married to the gym prefer guys much like themselves.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:27 PM GMT
    trugh said
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREOut of curiosity, if someone were to answer your question and say, "Yes, tall muscular beefy men are only into other tall muscular beefy men. They are not attracted to slimmer shorter softer men", what would you do differently in your life as a result?



    Very interesting question. I am curious to hear the answer too.


    That question cuts to the heart of the matter, doesn't it?

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    Jul 04, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    Alright, since nobody's gonna post pics - I'll share a pic here of my guy:
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    He's quite spectacular isn't he? ;)
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    Jul 04, 2011 7:31 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    trugh said
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREOut of curiosity, if someone were to answer your question and say, "Yes, tall muscular beefy men are only into other tall muscular beefy men. They are not attracted to slimmer shorter softer men", what would you do differently in your life as a result?



    Very interesting question. I am curious to hear the answer too.


    That question cuts to the heart of the matter, doesn't it?



    i'm still muscling up more for college & my own personal desire
    it has nothing to do with changing myself for someone else. i just find myself finding comfort in guys that are bigger than me, i guess i'm the "chick" lol idk. i like being with someone that can protect me - i guess thats what goes through my mind subconciously.
    Don't worry, i'm not redoing myself just so a beefy guy looks my way, just wondered if there was any clear answer, but as i thought "IT DEPENDS"
  • KnuxNole

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    Jul 04, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    I agree with ya eagleboy, guys who are bigger(doesn't have to be beefy, even just average sized) are hawt. Even if I did turn beefy, I would like to be a bottom 100%, that he is the stronger/power of the two, and I'm the "little spoon/submissive" dude icon_razz.gif