why do i always fall in love with the questionable guys

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    Jul 04, 2011 6:56 AM GMT
    this really sucks i fail in love with this guy name Abbas, and i cant stop thinking about him. and if im not thinking about him he would text or call me just to see what im up to and it would make me think about him. Im sorry if im not making any sense but i really really like him. but im very confused because he say he not into men but he will cuddle with me on the couch, try to sleep in my bed with me
    when he broke up with his girl friend he came over last night and he was about to kiss me but i moved because my cell phone ringed then he left icon_neutral.gif


    I ABSOLUTELY HATE THISicon_sad.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 11:28 AM GMT
    He just not ready yet, or he still unable to accept that he like you.
    be patient, or move on
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    Jul 04, 2011 3:44 PM GMT
    but it so hard
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:49 PM GMT
    tonylavon734 saidbut it so hard


    That's what she said.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:54 PM GMT
    That's very rough. As someone above said, he's not ready. Try to put him out of your mind for now (I know, easier said than done). Get together with friends, workout, get out and meet other guys howver you like to do that best. You can't make someone be with you. Most of us have had something similar happen to them. Best wishes.
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    Jul 04, 2011 11:26 PM GMT
    tonylavon734 saidbut it so hard


    it's hard to make that choice, I have same problem 4 years ago, and then i choose the second choice, that move on, since it's will be easier for him.

    as we know when we start realize that we are different, it's took sometime for us to say, yes i'm gay, somepeople pass that, but most of bi sex(that's what i understand about his position, if i'm wrong, pardon me) , will back with the girl.

    Maybe if you brave enough ask him, and see what his reaction, at least you got the answer from him. if he want stay with you, or he just want to become best friend with you as now


    hope this help.
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    Jul 04, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
    wake up and smell the java . . . you are being used
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    Jul 05, 2011 12:01 AM GMT
    antelope saidThat's very rough. As someone above said, he's not ready. Try to put him out of your mind for now (I know, easier said than done). Get together with friends, workout, get out and meet other guys howver you like to do that best. You can't make someone be with you. Most of us have had something similar happen to them. Best wishes.

    Good advice for whenever you have a crush on someone. Because you can rarely tell at first how serious it is. A momentary infatuation, or the real thing? Nor may you be sure what his own true & lasting feelings towards you are.

    Time, and sometimes a time-out, can help solve that mystery. And having other choices from which to select. Your first or early crushes are often irresistible.

    If this guy is "questionable" then I would have a question. And spend a little time working this out, not jumping in with both feet. Emotions that puzzle us ourselves are usually the most suspect. Or else the OP would not have posted this, yes?
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    Jul 05, 2011 12:13 AM GMT
    tonylavon734 said
    when he broke up with his girl friend he came over last night and he was about to kiss me but i moved because my cell phone ringed then he left icon_neutral.gif



    Guess the infatuation wasn't enough to make you ignore your phone.
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    Jul 05, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    faulty gaydar perhaps? but if he wanted to kiss you, why would you answer your phone!?!?