People who view your profile but never speak, talk, send IM, or comment on a photo or profile

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    Jul 04, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    Does it irritate you? or do you not even pay them any attention and simply block them like i do icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    Why should it bother me if someone looked at my profile and then decided they had nothing to say to me?
    Sometimes I look back, but blocking: really?
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    intentsman saidWhy should it bother me if someone looked at my profile and then decided they had nothing to say to me?
    Sometimes I look back, but blocking: really?
    I just find it to be somewhat irritating if the person who views me has no type of purpose with me i mean i will talk to them but they have to let me know but if they won't and continue to view my profile it annoys me
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    I don't worry about it, as there could be a lot of reasons. Maybe I just said a series of stupid things in threads and they keep coming back to my profile wondering, "What is this bitch's problem?"
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:05 PM GMT

    I had just the opposite happen to me. Paid a compliment to one of the guys who met up in Toronto.... didn't even have the courtesy to say "Thanks"
    Does very little good to try to attract attention by your "outsides", when your "insides" could use a little work.
    I rarely run into guys who are so short on humility.... but there's always one in the crowd, right??
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:12 PM GMT
    So what ?
    If you see a hot guy when you're walking down the street, do you stop him and strike up a conversation and tell him how hot he looks and ask him for a date ?
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
    Iceblink saidI don't worry about it, as there could be a lot of reasons. Maybe I just said a series of stupid things in threads and they keep coming back to my profile wondering, "What is this bitch's problem?"
    And is this supposed to be directed at me and for the record I'm not a bitch just honest. deal with it
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    Edward22 said
    Iceblink saidI don't worry about it, as there could be a lot of reasons. Maybe I just said a series of stupid things in threads and they keep coming back to my profile wondering, "What is this bitch's problem?"
    And is this supposed to be directed at me and for the record I'm not a bitch just honest. deal with it


    Did I say "Edward" or did I say "I" in the sentence? You made a public thread, I responded. Deal with it.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:22 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    Edward22 said
    Iceblink saidI don't worry about it, as there could be a lot of reasons. Maybe I just said a series of stupid things in threads and they keep coming back to my profile wondering, "What is this bitch's problem?"
    And is this supposed to be directed at me and for the record I'm not a bitch just honest. deal with it


    Did I say "Edward" or did I say "I" in the sentence? You made a public thread, I responded. Deal with it.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:25 PM GMT
    Message them first if you want to initiate a conversation. Why block them? A lot of guys are shy to make the first move, and/or they were just furiously masturbating when they clicked through several profiles and you could take it as an oblique compliment that you were included in the photo line-up of "inspirational materials" icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    spaghettimonster saidMessage them first if you want to initiate a conversation. Why block them? A lot of guys are shy to make the first move, and/or they were just furiously masturbating when they clicked through several profiles and you could take it as an oblique compliment that you were included in the photo line-up of "inspirational materials" icon_biggrin.gif
    lol thanks for the advice
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    I got blocked by this Los Angeles guy(Half Salvadoran and Half Persian) just for seeking his friendship. Would you believe it?
    I was very lonely, desperately wanted someone to reach out to. Thought he could help me with my problems. But got blocked. It's like adding insult to injury.
    Personally, i would never block anyone even if they were to bug me. I love and respect gays, whoever/whatever they are.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    NEW RULE:

    RJ members are only allowed to view Edward22's profile ONE time without sending him messages of praise and adoration.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:36 PM GMT
    Shashank_Rosberg saidI got blocked by this Los Angeles guy(Half Salvadoran and Half Persian) just for seeking his friendship. Would you believe it?
    I was very lonely, desperately wanted someone to reach out to. Thought he could help me with my problems. But got blocked. It's like adding insult to injury.
    Personally, i would never block anyone even if they were to bug me. I love and respect gays, whoever/whatever they are.
    I try to be the same way but it seems some people can't take a hint
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    intentsman saidNEW RULE:

    RJ members are only allowed to view Edward22's profile ONE time without sending him messages of praise and adoration.
    You try so hard to throw shade but yet you are forgetting one huge thing I could careless about what you think
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:43 PM GMT
    Edward22 said I could careless about what you think


    hence the creation of this thread and the blocking of people who look at your profile without chatting you up
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
    Edward22 saidDoes it irritate you? or do you not even pay them any attention and simply block them like i do icon_rolleyes.gif


    I looked at ur profile and didnt say anything,

    u gonna block me now? icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:53 PM GMT
    so_authentic said
    Edward22 saidDoes it irritate you? or do you not even pay them any attention and simply block them like i do icon_rolleyes.gif


    I looked at ur profile and didnt say anything,

    u gonna block me now? icon_lol.gif
    A little to late for that since i have done that already
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:54 PM GMT
    intentsman said
    Edward22 said I could careless about what you think


    hence the creation of this thread and the blocking of people who look at your profile without chatting you up
    For one i don't care about people wanting to chat up because i am not here for that anyways
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:56 PM GMT
    Well when I look at people it's cause of forum posts where it asks you how do you think blah blah blah above you blah blah blah? Other times just to check them out cause of forum posts they read. Or cause they're shown on the first page.
    Blocking them is a bit much I think, now if they bother you and you want to block them than that's your thing. But I won't go as far as blocking them unless they creep me out like sending IM's, but not saying anything.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:58 PM GMT
    Apparently no one is understanding what this thread is about i was simply stating if anyone else on this site is going through the same thing that i am and what you would do basically. The thread was not meant for arguments or drama which some people surprisingly are trying to initiate. I will simply say this if you don't like what i have to say then don't comment on my forums you can do that i am sure.
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:58 PM GMT
    Edward22 saidFor one i don't care about people wanting to chat up because i am not here for that anyways


    Then why make a thread bitching about guys not chatting it up after they look at your profile? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    vain_nayias saidWell when I look at people it's cause of forum posts where it asks you how do you think blah blah blah above you blah blah blah? Other times just to check them out cause of forum posts they read. Or cause they're shown on the first page.
    Blocking them is a bit much I think, now if they bother you and you want to block them than that's your thing. But I won't go as far as blocking them unless they creep me out like sending IM's, but not saying anything.
    Now this is a good positive anwser and what i am looking to see icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 04, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    I consider it a compliment when someone views my profile. When I view someone it's usually after I have read one of his posts -- maybe trying to see what makes them tick.
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    Jul 04, 2011 7:00 PM GMT
    wildtype87 said
    Edward22 saidFor one i don't care about people wanting to chat up because i am not here for that anyways


    Then why make a thread bitching about guys not chatting it up after they look at your profile? icon_rolleyes.gif
    Because who the hell views your profile and never speaks