Cmon guys ! 50 views and no point of view?
I'm young and inexperienced and I'd die for an answer. When I came out recently to my relatives, the first question I was asked by my brother was: How does sex between dudes works? He asked it as a joke (luckily for me) so he didn't expect an answer, but I had none... and it's bothering me to the point that I come here to post my embarrassing questions.
Maybe I can develop a little bit to break the ice (short and sweet):
When we talk about sex referring to a heterosexual couple, we have the image of a man inserting a woman and doing all kinds of stuff super exciting for both partners. It is true that most of them have tried anal sex once in their lifetime and some of them are into it, but it's clearly a minority because women have an alternative much more comfortable for her to enjoy.
When it comes to a homosexual relationship... we have the image of a man inserting another man's butt. Like I said, the picture or the idea of it excites me... but I've heard that it can be an uncomfortable sensation, that it's kind of unhealthy (other than STIs) for the anus and that sometimes it hurts. I would never force myself to inflict/endure pain to/for a partner.
All this writing to get to my questions which are: 1)
If someone decides to not practice anal sex for different personal reasons, what's left other than repetitive blowjobs/masturbation sessions? 2)
Does it get (hope not)boring after a while because of the repetitiveness of the same action if someone decides to not engage in anal sex?
Please! I would really enjoy an answer (not based on stereotypes). I know that what I am asking is personal and members who will answer have their personal profile linked, but I'm sure it'd really help more than just one person (me).
*Sorry for my spelling/grammar, I'm bilingual but my mother tongue language is French (Canada).