Is it better to pursue a guy or let him come to you?

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    Jul 05, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    I can't figure it out! Which is better? When I pursue a guy or let him come to me? Tired of screwing it up and over-thinking/analyzing. urgh!

    Brad
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    Jul 05, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    Both, at times its better that you pursue, others let yourself become the pursued. Best thing is to pursue without letting them know they are being pursued icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 05, 2011 3:31 AM GMT
    I think that's the problem - you really shouldn't have to pursue anyone if there's legitimate interest. I'm not in it for games. If you're into me that's great...I have no problem making the first move, but I'm not into chasing someone around until they settle for me. I'm far too blunt for that BS. I'd say my approach honestly works pretty well for me. Then again, I've not really sought out hookups or whatever, so I could have a slightly skewed view.
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    Jul 05, 2011 3:39 AM GMT
    makes sense...I'm not about the hookups either...but it seems like if i approach a guy, it comes across as coming on too strong. but if I don't approach the guy, i'm at a loss too. doh!
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    Jul 05, 2011 3:40 AM GMT
    go_vols saidmakes sense...I'm not about the hookups either...but it seems like if i approach a guy, it comes across as coming on too strong. but if I don't approach the guy, i'm at a loss too. doh!



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    Jul 05, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    haha...yah, i hear ya...it's so tough! I'd definitely just rather be pursued and not even think about it
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    Jul 05, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    Always better to let him cum on you.
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    Jul 05, 2011 2:37 PM GMT
    To err is Human.

    Where are you meeting these individuals? The app(s) for that?

    I have a friend when we go out, his Grindr app is open and visible to anyone that would look his direction. I see the looks on their faces, and almost have to laugh. I tell my friend to shut it down, and look UP. Grabbing his chin and pulling upward to show him the guys that are 0 feet away!

    He doesn't get it and the look on the other patrons faces are that of almost disgust. Like he cannot enjoy the venue of where he is at, and sends an aura of boredom with who he is with.

    He hasn't acquired any male material in quite some time.

    Get out there handsome and I agree with DallasFan. Let them cum on you.. Err Cum to you. Or both!

    Smile, be humble and enjoy!
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    Jul 06, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    Better to make him beg for it. Lots of fish in the pond.
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    Jul 06, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    i say both. hell if you are doing all the chasing who the hell is he chasing. it should be a two way street buddy