Finally found the guy... Bad drama

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    Jul 05, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    so i have been single and what not for about a year now and i finally found a guy who i might be interested in and who i am genuinely attracted to physically.
    I know nothing about his personality whatsoever. I know that he is very social and very popular with the gay boys which i am to a point but not where everyone knows who i am or follows my every move. He was also extremely intoxicated when we met and he was saying he wanted to talk to me all night and what not. i fell for it and we made out. then he passed out on me. im still interested and am willing to look past his drunken escapades considering the holiday. We met at The Dunes Resort in Saugatuck, MI (anyone ever been or had an opinion here? icon_smile.gif). Well he also lives a few hours away. He was interested but now only txts me one word responses. Should I give up now or move on? I know it purely a physical crush but i have a tendancy to bring out people's true personalities and/or feelings. I feel like I could dig deep into this guy. Ugh ps if anyone else wants to woe me please go ahead haha icon_smile.gif
  • austex85

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    Jul 05, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    play it for what it's worth, but just don't invest too much or hold your breath.

    his one word responses already indicate a waning interest so clearly he's not taking this as seriously as you. not sure if you're the type to play games, but if you keep responding, you'll come off as desperate. if i were you, i'd quit the texts and just corner him next time he's physically there, stick your tongue down his throat, and walk away like nothing happened. i'm sure that'll keep him intrigued and give you the upper hand.
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    Jul 05, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    Mate , not sound evil but it sounds like 'in the moment' sorta thing. He's probably doesn't dig you as much as you dig him.

    Put it simply, move on.
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    Jul 05, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    austex85 saidplay it for what it's worth, but just don't invest too much or hold your breath.

    his one word responses already indicate a waning interest so clearly he's not taking this as seriously as you. not sure if you're the type to play games, but if you keep responding, you'll come off as desperate. if i were you, i'd quit the texts and just corner him next time he's physically there, stick your tongue down his throat, and walk away like nothing happened. i'm sure that'll keep him intrigued and give you the upper hand.


    thanks for the honesty. i figured this would be the consensus seeing as how i already knew this lol frustrating when u find someone and they arent interested in u
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    Jul 05, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    great now im sounding like im desperate haha. im really not a clingy guy or something like that so this is all new. thanks for the advice
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 05, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    GVJoe90 said frustrating when u find someone and they arent interested in u


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    Jul 05, 2011 2:41 PM GMT
    GVJoe90 saidgreat now im sounding like im desperate haha. im really not a clingy guy or something like that so this is all new. thanks for the advice


    Almost the play by play on my birthday this year.

    Drinks, shirtless dancing, kissing on the dance floor, back to my place. wake up the next morning, thanks, have a great day. drop him off at his place.

    small word responses... meet up for dinner one more time, and his comment. OMG I was a hot mess that night..

    Case closed. Enjoy, move forward! I see him out occasionally, and leave it at that. I let him say hi to me, he has a few times, about it.

  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 05, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    The "one word" response thing is what stands out. I wouldn't bug him and if thats all he's giving you, I don't think I'd put much stock there. I'd be prepared to move on.
  • vintovka

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    Jul 05, 2011 3:03 PM GMT
    I haven't drunk since I was 20, so I've had the experience many times of meeting someone who's had a few too many, talking, exchanging numbers and then texting (or nothing prior to texting). It isn't about you, it's about the fact that the alcohol has erased his short term memory. It's not that you're not hot, it's that he doesn't remember how hot you are.