Rejection sucks

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    Jul 05, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    The details are unimportant; I am not looking for advice or fishing for compliments. But rejection just plain old sucks... and not in the good way....
  • Import

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    Jul 05, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    just think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .

    ur problems are so small and really trite. Get over ur rejection. you'll live
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    Jul 05, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    Import saidjust think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .

    ur problems are so small and really trite. Get over ur rejection. you'll live


    That kind of response has never helped anyone with a problem or negative emotion ever in the history of Earth.

    Sorry about the rejection, Alpha.
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    Import saidjust think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .

    ur problems are so small and really trite. Get over ur rejection. you'll live


    That kind of response has never helped anyone with a problem or negative emotion ever in the history of Earth.

    Sorry about the rejection, Alpha.


    and u know the whole history of earth?

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    Jul 05, 2011 11:07 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    Import saidjust think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .

    ur problems are so small and really trite. Get over ur rejection. you'll live


    That kind of response has never helped anyone with a problem or negative emotion ever in the history of Earth.

    Sorry about the rejection, Alpha.


    Thanks, SB. I will be fine. But you know... as much as I justify it in my brain, it just sucks. There are tons of reasons it didn't work and what not,... but when things are great you feel on top of the world and when they are over you question everything. When they are over.... well, it just fooking sucks.

    And don't give Import a hard time. Read his profile... he is just overcompensating for some issue by trying to be a "deep thinker". He is a decent guy; he can't help it.
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:08 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    SkinnyBitch said
    Import saidjust think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .

    ur problems are so small and really trite. Get over ur rejection. you'll live


    That kind of response has never helped anyone with a problem or negative emotion ever in the history of Earth.

    Sorry about the rejection, Alpha.


    Thanks, SB. I will be fine. But you know... as much as I justify it in my brain, it just sucks. There are tons of reasons it didn't work and what not,... but when things are great you feel on top of the world and when they are over you question everything. When they are over.... well, it just fooking sucks.

    And don't give Import a hard time. Read his profile... he is just overcompensating for some issue by trying to be a "deep thinker". He is a decent guy; he can't help it.

    I love you boo <3
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:19 PM GMT
    It definitely hurts but the important thing is not to beat yourself up over it. There will be others - in your case, plenty of others.
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:34 PM GMT
    Aww. Cheer up. Plenty of other guys out there that would be happy to meet you. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:35 PM GMT
    Vancouverite2004 saidIt definitely hurts but the important thing is not to beat yourself up over it. There will be others - in your case, plenty of others.


    It is a cycle.... angry, confused, sad, regretful (What did I do wrong??!!) and then resigned to it. Then I am over it.... for a while and then angry, confused, sad, regretful and resigned... then better...

    Oh well. Time heals all wounds, right?

    Well, except for that sex slave thing in Singapore... that will take more than time I guess...
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    Is this a parody thread? Who in their right mind would reject you?
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:53 PM GMT
    Guys.... everyone goes through it! Rejection is a part of gay life. Nobody is immune.

    it is sweet of you guys to say that, but everyone goes through it... well, except for the guys who DO the rejection when the emotions get too strong. those guys do the rejection, but they should be pitied.. they are destined to be lonely because they dont risk the hurt feelings. That isn't healthy either. Hurt is normal part of life..

    But, it still sucks...
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    Jul 05, 2011 11:57 PM GMT
    It does suck, but its better to be rejected than have them stay and be unhappy.

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    Jul 05, 2011 11:59 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said

    Oh well. Time heals all wounds, right?


    That's what someone told me, but I don't know what it means.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    Alpha_Muscle said

    Oh well. Time heals all wounds, right?


    That's what someone told me, but I don't know what it means.


    It means that patience and perseverence always wins out. This sucks now, but tomorrow it will suck less.... and next week it will suck less and then two months from now it will still suck, but I wont notice it.

    The great thing about getting older is you develop patience you didn't have as a 20-something. I can survive anything with patience and a peaceful nature. Years ago I would have had drama.

    So... it does suck.... and right now it sucks hard... but it will get better. I just wanted to get some guys to empathize with me so I didn't feel so alone about it.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    Import saidjust think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .


    How is that suppose to change anything?
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    His LOSS! Just hang in there; the best is yet to come. All said and done, I can't believe anyone would reject you.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    Alpha_Muscle said

    Oh well. Time heals all wounds, right?


    That's what someone told me, but I don't know what it means.

    In a mere two years you won't give it a second thought.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:37 AM GMT
    AGREED!!!

    haha i was deeply upset when i was rejected haha, but then i realized that i'm probably just too awesome for them and moved on to bigger and better things. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    If one man wants to lose it 3 other men could use it!
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:39 AM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    SkinnyBitch said
    Alpha_Muscle said

    Oh well. Time heals all wounds, right?


    That's what someone told me, but I don't know what it means.

    In a mere two years you won't give it a second thought.



    Whoa.... everyone was helping until now.... whoa.... WTF...

    TWO YEARS???

    I was thinking like 3 weeks sounded good!


    Geez, dont be a doctor dude... icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:40 AM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidThe details are unimportant; I am not looking for advice or fishing for compliments. But rejection just plain old sucks... and not in the good way....


    I guess you're not used to it and I can understand why.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    cityaznguy said
    Alpha_Muscle saidThe details are unimportant; I am not looking for advice or fishing for compliments. But rejection just plain old sucks... and not in the good way....


    I guess you're not used to it and I can understand why.


    Why you say that, man? I dont understand.
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:46 AM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    SkinnyBitch said
    Alpha_Muscle said

    Oh well. Time heals all wounds, right?


    That's what someone told me, but I don't know what it means.


    It means that patience and perseverence always wins out. This sucks now, but tomorrow it will suck less.... and next week it will suck less and then two months from now it will still suck, but I wont notice it.

    The great thing about getting older is you develop patience you didn't have as a 20-something. I can survive anything with patience and a peaceful nature. Years ago I would have had drama.

    So... it does suck.... and right now it sucks hard... but it will get better. I just wanted to get some guys to empathize with me so I didn't feel so alone about it.


    Hahah, I was quoting a song. I can't believe no one recognized Long, Long Time by Linda Ronstadt. Like the saddest song ever!
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:53 AM GMT
    Heh, eventually you just get used to them and start embracing them.

    i've never been not rejected (how's that for triple negatives?). it sucks, but at least now i don't expect otherwise.

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    Jul 06, 2011 12:56 AM GMT
    Import saidjust think of the dying children in Africa or the children in signapore who are being sold into sex slavery at age 5. .

    ur problems are so small and really trite. Get over ur rejection. you'll live


    But I really wanted to be a sex slave in Singapore. I tried again and again. And got turned down. Repeatedly. That kind of pain never really goes away.

    It happens to the best of us. Alpha_Muscle is a prime example of that. Order pizza. Eat ice cream. Have a little too much to drink. It passes. Then you start again like nothing ever happened.

    xxoxoox