"Can't Always Get What You Want BUT....."

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    Jul 06, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    "...YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED!"

    After a long period of time searching and wanting specific guys, I finally stop being closed-minded, took advice from some great guys on here and finally opened my eyes. Wanted a in-shape, beefy, muscular guy but that's "wanting" instead of "needing". I "needed" a guy that shares the same interest and things we both like and to do. Finally after a few years (3yrs to be exact) wasting my time on what I want, I finally found what I need! I finally found a CAR GUY, like me, that races, works on them, and etc. He also plays (and I can sing & songwrite) in a band and enjoy things I enjoy and def got the same taste in music. I'm concern on his looks, just on him for being him. I am happier now seeing NEEDING is much better than WANTING anyday. icon_smile.gif
  • luadun

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    Jul 06, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    Good point. It applies to other aspects of life too.
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    Jul 06, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    I know exactly what you mean and am really happy for you icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 06, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    Best of luck to both of you. It's really good to see a positive story on RJ.
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    Jul 06, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    BlkSlimbtm4MuscleTop said"...YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED!"

    After a long period of time searching and wanting specific guys, I finally stop being closed-minded, took advice from some great guys on here and finally opened my eyes. Wanted a in-shape, beefy, muscular guy but that's "wanting" instead of "needing". I "needed" a guy that shares the same interest and things we both like and to do. Finally after a few years (3yrs to be exact) wasting my time on what I want, I finally found what I need! I finally found a CAR GUY, like me, that races, works on them, and etc. He also plays (and I can sing & songwrite) in a band and enjoy things I enjoy and def got the same taste in music. I'm concern on his looks, just on him for being him. I am happier now seeing NEEDING is much better than WANTING anyday. icon_smile.gif


    I think it gets harder for guys that go for big contrasts, such as short for tall or skinny for beefy.
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    Jul 06, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    you fucked up that quote
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    Jul 06, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    Thanks guys icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 06, 2011 8:57 PM GMT
    Congratulations! I do agree with your statement, but the tricky part for a lot of guys is to figure out what they need.