Do u make the first move when u see a hot guy??? :)

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    Jul 06, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
    Soo when u really see a really hot guy somewhere do u make the first move Or does he?? Me I usually let the other guy make the move first ;)
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 06, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    I always take the initiative....nothing ventured nothing gained...icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:45 PM GMT
    Nope; never...
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    Jul 06, 2011 12:59 PM GMT
    I make the first move with guys in my age range
  • Lincsbear

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    Jul 06, 2011 1:10 PM GMT
    My instinct is to hope he makes the first move.But more recently,I have begun to move first.As other posters have said,make it happen,don`t be afraid of him saying no thanks.A lot of the time I think they are so glad you did something!
  • rnch

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    Jul 06, 2011 1:11 PM GMT
    never an issue as "hot" guys hit one each other and leave me alone.


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    Jul 06, 2011 1:14 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidSure. I don't mind rejection. I just go for it.


    I don't mind rejections either. I go for it. But I also know when to hit the breaks. Desperation is not sexy and even though I do have a healthy ego, it still gets bruised sometimes. icon_cry.gif



    jawrhed saidI make the first move with guys in my age range


    What?! You look so much younger than a typical guy in your age range. Besides, there are always guys, and I mean hot guys in their early 20s who are into slightly more mature guys. icon_smile.gif


    Closetfreak saidSoo when u really see a really hot guy somewhere do u make the first move Or does he?? Me I usually let the other guy make the move first ;)


    I dunno about this....

    Don't you think that if you let them make the first move, you're really putting your fate in someone else's hands? I like the pursue actually. There's a sense of accompaniment when you finally get what you want icon_wink.gif. I am very proactive. But I guess it also depends on if you're a top or bottom. LOL!!
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    Jul 06, 2011 1:14 PM GMT
    Depends
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    Jul 06, 2011 1:15 PM GMT
    Sometimes. For me it depends on various factors - my blood alcohol level, if I have otherwise been introduced to the guy, the venue (assuming that it is a club or bar for the sake of the thread) and whether or not he is by himself or with a gaggle of his buddies, or with a dedicated wingman.

    Usually the best case scenario will be me with a drink or two in me, me already having been introduced to him at some point, and him without any wingmen to dissuade him from talking to a more average looking guy like myself, lol...

    Of course, I'm not as keen on clubbing or going to bars as I was years ago.

    If I do go, I would prefer to go with friends and not think about trying to hookup, but just enjoy ourselves.
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    Jul 06, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    I will. What's the worst thing that could happen?
    He says he's not interested? I get ignored?
    Well, the answer is definitely "No" if I don't ask.
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    Jul 06, 2011 2:03 PM GMT
    Does looking at my shoes and shuffling away count as a first move?icon_lol.gif

    There are 2 guys in my gym who are really good looking and are constantly staring at me whenever they're in my sightline.

    I've said hello a few times but no responses, just staring. Now I ignore them but even my friends point out that the guys are looking at me.
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    Jul 06, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    Used to. I learned to take rejection, looked on it as a gay rite of passage
  • matt13226

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    Jul 06, 2011 2:23 PM GMT
    on here if i like the guy i do after i get to know him in real life no
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    Jul 06, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    Not really. I'm very shy when it comes to that. I usually just try and sit there and look pretty LOL. Hahaha

    Once my chat-up line to a hot guy was 'excuse me, do you know where the toilet is?'. As you can see, I'm quite the charmer...
  • Midas426

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    Jul 06, 2011 2:26 PM GMT
    After some liquid courage I might try. :-)
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    Jul 06, 2011 2:33 PM GMT
    oh gosh no...i just can't bear myself to get a look of "eww i would never even think about looking your way" icon_cry.gif damn it life's so easy for hot people icon_rolleyes.gif but even if he's not hot...cuz worse than getting rejected by a hot guy...getting rejected by an average one lol icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 06, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    Yes, because I've come a long way myself and, at this point, attractions I have for studly guys have a better chance of being mutual.

    Think about it this way: You could try or you could not try. If you try, there's a chance it's mutual but then there's the chance it's not but at least you tried. If you don't try, then you automatically fail, pretty much rejecting yourself before the guy has a choice about it.

    Which would you rather do?