Could you be BF with a guy you know likes to hook up a lot?

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    Jul 07, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    Would you consider getting into a relationship with a guy who is promiscuous?
  • ineedausernam...

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    Jul 07, 2011 4:54 PM GMT
    If he was tested and agreed to be monogamous during our relationship.
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    Jul 07, 2011 6:14 PM GMT
    been there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are
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    Jul 07, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    It really does depend doesnt it? I mean, I sleep around from time to time, but I would much prefer a relationship to being a ho.
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    Jul 07, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
    He just haven't found the right man yet.

    I mean, you try on clothes before you buy it, right? Who knows, maybe you're his perfect fit.

    I know plenty of people, who used to sleep around a lot before the relationship, but were completely faithful during the relationship. The key is that the sex needs to be pretty fucking fantastic. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 07, 2011 6:46 PM GMT
    ryedyrr7 saidWould you consider getting into a relationship with a guy who is promiscuous?
    If the guys he hooks up with are really hot, hell yeah! icon_biggrin.gif
  • trainhard2011

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    Jul 07, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    Nope.
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    Jul 07, 2011 7:50 PM GMT
    Well I don't care what he is doing when we are not in a relationship. Yes he will have to tested and we will practice safe sex until I can trust him completely. But just because he likes having sex I can't judge him to be not a good person to be in a relationship.
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    Jul 07, 2011 7:51 PM GMT
    No then they're not worthy being labeled a 'bf'

    common sense
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    Jul 07, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    It really does depend doesnt it? I mean, I sleep around from time to time, but I would much prefer a relationship to being a ho.


    People may like the idea of having a relationship but they used to sleeping around and soon enough they will get bored with sleeping with one person night after night. And I could imagine people with a reputation would have a hard time looking for a steady relationship than the rest.
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    Jul 07, 2011 7:59 PM GMT
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    If you judge everyone based off of things they've done in the past and give them no chance you'll be alone for a very very long time. Sheesh.
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    Jul 07, 2011 8:01 PM GMT
    benz72 said
    Chainers said
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    It really does depend doesnt it? I mean, I sleep around from time to time, but I would much prefer a relationship to being a ho.


    People may like the idea of having a relationship but they used to sleeping around and soon enough they will get bored with sleeping with one person night after night. And I could imagine people with a reputation would have a hard time looking for a steady relationship than the rest.


    So sleeping around is better than sleeping with one person?

    Sometimes people who hook up do it because its better than fapping yourself to sleep every night.

    Sometimes people start to long for sex with meaning.

    It all depends, I wouldnt put people in a box before you have even met them.
  • wild_sky360

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    Jul 07, 2011 8:02 PM GMT
    It depends on his sexual practices sleeping around. If he gets drunk and has unsafe sex, then the risk factor weighs too heavily...that is too impulsive, rather than healthy exploration. I don't subscribe to sex is sacramental ...not until you're committed. Then it is way better.

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    Jul 07, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    rf_dal said
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    If you judge everyone based off of things they've done in the past and give them no chance you'll be alone for a very very long time. Sheesh.
    What if I killed my parents with a spoon and ate them with chopsticks?
  • rnch

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    Jul 07, 2011 8:19 PM GMT
    FB/FWB....yes indeed!

    BF....helll no!
  • rf_dal

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    Jul 07, 2011 8:22 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    rf_dal said
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    If you judge everyone based off of things they've done in the past and give them no chance you'll be alone for a very very long time. Sheesh.
    What if I killed my parents with a spoon and ate them with chopsticks?


    You'd be in jail
  • austex85

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    Jul 07, 2011 8:30 PM GMT
    no hoes for me
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    Jul 07, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    I don't care what they do when we're not in a relationship, but otherwise I would have a problem. Open relationships aren't for me.
  • jpk090

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    Jul 07, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    rf_dal said
    paulflexes said
    rf_dal said
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    If you judge everyone based off of things they've done in the past and give them no chance you'll be alone for a very very long time. Sheesh.
    What if I killed my parents with a spoon and ate them with chopsticks?


    You'd be in jail


    +1
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    Jul 07, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    what if the guy is into you and likes you would you give him a chance?
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    Jul 07, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    Tried that... The change was temporary before he resorted to first trying to convince me that "no guy is monogamous so we should have an open relationship" and the becoming sneaky by just "doing his thing" on the side. It brought so much insecurity within myself and there's nothing worse than never being able to go somewhere without running into someone he slept with. Guys like that make better friends and have better stories to tell but I would never get involved with that mess again!
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    Jul 07, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    ryedyrr7 saidwhat if the guy is into you and likes you would you give him a chance?


    If he is into you and likes you why would he want to hook up or be with someone else if you and he want to be boyfriends?

    If he wants you as a boyfriend, then he should be a boyfriend back.
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    Jul 07, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    I want a man not a man whore there's a difference
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    Jul 07, 2011 9:36 PM GMT
    I would like whomever I'm with to feel they are free to live their lives how they please, and not feel like I want to stifle their freedom.

    Inside of me, however, I want them to be mine, absolutely mine and only mine. You can't really say this to a guy without scaring them in some way, though. So I can only wait to find someone who out of their own free will wants me to be theirs and only theirs.
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    Jul 07, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    rf_dal said
    benz72 saidbeen there, done that, never go back again. so regret. Do you think you can change him? wrong, they are who they are


    If you judge everyone based off of things they've done in the past and give them no chance you'll be alone for a very very long time. Sheesh.


    hooking up is not somewhat you call a mistake. Its a fucking choice.